sara84
Sep 23, 2013, 03:32 AM
I hope someone can help me with my dilemma
I have a 2 and a half year old boy who his father loves him to death, he’s with me all the way, pregnancy and birth, they always say that the mother is the caregiver of the family but in my situation both of us are caregivers, his father changed and still change his diaper, he’s the one who takes him to pools and the beach, buying him his favorite stuff, etc.
My main problem is that the boy doesn’t want his father, he doesn’t want his father to touch him of play with him or speaks to him and the attitude increases when I am around. I know his father understands that he’s just a boy but it breaks my heart seeing how his son treats him and with all that is done for him he still carries a grudge towards his father.
I know deep down inside him he’s hurting when his son pushes him away and I don’t know what to do
Please please I need advice on how to because am lost and where we live we don’t have experts that you can go to.
I have a 2 and a half year old boy who his father loves him to death, he’s with me all the way, pregnancy and birth, they always say that the mother is the caregiver of the family but in my situation both of us are caregivers, his father changed and still change his diaper, he’s the one who takes him to pools and the beach, buying him his favorite stuff, etc.
My main problem is that the boy doesn’t want his father, he doesn’t want his father to touch him of play with him or speaks to him and the attitude increases when I am around. I know his father understands that he’s just a boy but it breaks my heart seeing how his son treats him and with all that is done for him he still carries a grudge towards his father.
I know deep down inside him he’s hurting when his son pushes him away and I don’t know what to do
Please please I need advice on how to because am lost and where we live we don’t have experts that you can go to.