My friend is up on a disaplianry on faulse allagations how does she stand to defend herself on others words?

First any question on law needs to include your general locale as laws vary by area.

Second a better description of the case might help us provide advice.

Her lawyer helps her with her defense.
It would take all day asking you questions (that she should be here asking) to even begin to try to answer this.
Does she have a lawyer available to her in her country?

One of the big things Judges look for in a case like this is being humble and remorseful.Yes your Honor. She doesn't want to come off with excuses, acting defensive, or trying to justifying any of what she did

One of the big things Judges look for in a case like this is being humble and remorseful.Yes your Honor. She doesn't want to come off with excuses, acting defensive, or trying to justifying any of what she did

Note that we are told the accusations are false.

Yes but she has to come off as cooperative yet getting her side across. Remorseful on anything she might have possibly done to cause the problem. Judges are use to a lot of people claim 'false allegations' 'I didn't do it' so they don't give a lot of credibility to people getting defensive and all.

Oops - just notice 'disciplinary.' Sounds more like at work or the military. Or even school.

Normally the people accusing are required to prove their statements, so what type of proof is there. What is being said. What type of court is this ?