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Unbalanced17
Sep 21, 2013, 03:43 PM
Since I was a child whenever he is drunk he used to let my then 1 and a half year old brother hold a bolo or big knife and tells him to say that he is a boy.. my mother works abroad and he tells me that she has another lover. And now that I am married he tells me that I have many many guys in my life and that I am like my mother a whore. I can't take this anymore, we live on the same house which my mother bought. He lives upstairs with his concubine and illigetimate son.. when I was in middleschool my guidance counselor called ma at her office because I was having poor grades because of what is happening at home.. HELP!! I can't take this verbal abuse anymore

N0help4u
Sep 21, 2013, 03:45 PM
You can't really do much about the past unless you can prove some things then maybe you have a claim. The only thing I see here is that you MAY BE able to get an order of no contact against them to leave you alone now.

How old are you now?

Unbalanced17
Sep 21, 2013, 03:49 PM
27 and I am already married with 2 kids.. all I want is for this emotional abuse to stop. What steps or measure can I do?

joypulv
Sep 21, 2013, 03:51 PM
You and your husband should not be living in the same house with him. You have the choice of struggling financially out on your own, as most young couples MUST do, or you stay where you are and deal with it. You are an ADULT. Unless he physically attacks you, you have no way to get help from the law. What do you think can be done? Why aren't you and your husband living somewhere else?

Unbalanced17
Sep 21, 2013, 03:56 PM
Yes, but you see the house is bought my mother. She is working abroad. And when they were still living together she bought this house.. and now that they are separated he lives upstairs with his wife. 'tho he is not legally separated yet with my mom with their son. I'm afraid that if we will leave my mom can't have this house anymore.. It's the only property she bought.. Recently I filed a complaint at our community and tomorrow we will have our confrontation there.. Thank you for taking time to read this.. Many situations here in the Philippines is really like this

joypulv
Sep 21, 2013, 04:00 PM
Oh sorry, forgot to ask where.

Unbalanced17
Sep 21, 2013, 04:06 PM
I'm from the philippines

N0help4u
Sep 21, 2013, 04:19 PM
Are you sure that it would make a difference one way or the other about the house whether you lived there or not? Is the deed in her name and not his?