I moved in with my boyfriend when I turned 18 upon his approval. Bit he will throw it up in arguments saying that I asked after I moved in. We've been together almost 5 years. Every serious relationship issue talk turns into an argument. He is very stressed about money I know. But last night I told him that I've been missing him because our work schedules are opposite an he agreed we don't spend much time together. Today I may.have.snapped at.him a little an he.stayed in the.living room playing games for hours! When I.tried to talk about it, he always.turns it on me an brings up bad things from the past and says that I make it out to be all his fault. When all I want is to be more intimate, romantic, an spend more time together and his response tonight was that he feels like I smother him sometimes because I always want him home whenever I'm actually at home. He works 8-5(6) and I work 5-9(9:30) he's off on weekends and I'm off Wednesday and Thursday. I feel like he resents me from the very beginning because of that moving in comments. He doesn't want kids or marriage until were financial ready.(which will be never) I'm 22 an he's 32. Our relationship is going down hill, I know he's stressed about a lot of things but I've tried to tell him stressing out over it all the time doesn't help anything an is also putting a strain on our relationship. There's lost more weird things I don't understand about him. Like not initiating or caring about sex anymore, porn on his phone with the comment above.. Doesn't make since. Just lots of weird things. I'm starting to feel like he's starting to resent me. Please any advice!

Hello first I'm sorry to hear all that. Don't put yourself down cause of how he has been acting. You are still young is you don't really love him. Girl leave him I'm sure you can find someone who will appreciate u. You need that in your life. If u want kids and marriage and he says not until your financially stable well don't wait around for him. Don't waist your time.he obviously does not care very much how you feel. Honestly if he's not trying to be intimate anymore. Then I think its best you leave him and not stress about money cause you can still go to college and become someone and meet someone with money instead of dealing with someone who is older and upset he didn't do anything with his life. You are a strong women. You can love a much better life. Remember don't try fixing something that can't be fixed. Just really think about what you want in life and you will get your answer.