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Parker143
Sep 12, 2013, 07:40 PM
I was really mad at my boyfriend the day I got the abortion and he didn't want me to I got it yesterday If I have sex today can I get pregnant please help !

smoothy
Sep 12, 2013, 07:45 PM
You shouldn't even be having sex for at least a month or so... unless you want to get an infection that could turn septic and make you sterile or worse.

Why are you trying to have a child with someone that's not important enough to marry anyway? Seriously... a kid is a lifetime commitment.

Alty
Sep 12, 2013, 07:49 PM
Children aren't toys. You can't decide one day that you're mad and want to get rid of the child, and then change your mind the next day.

I don't think you're ready to have a child if you got an abortion only because you were mad at your boyfriend. Think of the child, not only of yourself.

Having said that, you should not be having sex for around 6 weeks after an abortion. So no, you can't have sex tomorrow is you had an abortion yesterday.

Parker143
Sep 12, 2013, 08:03 PM
Children aren't toys. You can't decide one day that you're mad and want to get rid of the child, and then change your mind the next day.

I don't think you're ready to have a child if you got an abortion only because you were mad at your boyfriend. Think of the child, not only of yourself.

Having said that, you should not be having sex for around 6 weeks after an abortion. So no, you can't have sex tomorrow is you had an abortion yesterday.

I didn't ask all those question all I asked was can I get pregnant after having a abortion I have 1 daughter I know what it's like to have children

odinn7
Sep 12, 2013, 08:04 PM
So you had an abortion simply because you were mad at your boyfriend? That's a little extreme, isn't it? Was it like, "I'll show you!" ?

It's too early to be having sex. You need to wait and I'm sure they told you this when you had the abortion. AND... even IF you could have sex tomorrow... the way you wrote the question makes it seem like you believe if you have sex tomorrow, you will get pregnant. It doesn't work that way.

LadySam
Sep 12, 2013, 09:01 PM
How is it that I can remember my discharge instructions so clearly, "no sex for six weeks" and that was 32 years ago? It may have changed since then, but I can't imagine that it has changed that much.
I'm sorry, but you seem to have a very "casual" attitude about this.

Alty
Sep 12, 2013, 09:08 PM
How is it that I can remember my discharge instructions so clearly, "no sex for six weeks" and that was 32 years ago? It may have changed since then, but I can't imagine that it has changed that much.
I'm sorry, but you seem to have a very "casual" attitude about this.

And it's the casual attitude that's so worrisome.

I have nothing against abortion for those that choose to do it. But to do it because you're mad at your boyfriend, and then the next day say "Oh well, I'll just get pregnant again right away", is shocking.

This is a child, not a piece of furniture you decided to return, and then changed your mind.

What happens when baby makes her mad?