I think my mom never liked me. To be honest she did everything for my future but she never pampered me, or never had a friendly chat with me. There are no happy memories with her.

My childhood was rough. My mom and dad use to argue all the time it was severe. I was not good at studies instead of talking and explaining to me she use to compare with other kids. When ever any one of my friends have done any thing wrong (having affairs etc) she use to be rude with me as if I have done it. This is my past but now I'm happily married for 4 years, but whenever I call my mom or when we meet she tries to dominate me and always says that I never "loved her".

She always reminds me that she raised me. My sister died when I was young in a road accident and she blames me for that even though I had nothing to do with it.

What should I do?

Have you tried to pour out your heart and ask her why she feels so badly toward you? Many kids grow up feeling their parents didn't really care or give them the attention they felt they should have.