View Full Version : Girl problem at work
thatoneguy124
Sep 10, 2013, 07:02 PM
Okay I started my new job a few weeks ago and from the first day I laid my eyes on her I liked her. We hit it off, we do nothing but talk to each other. And about a week ago we were talking about the future and she asked me about my plans. Then I told her that I will probably move again. And she told me that I can't move. I asked her why is that, and she said because I like you. Then a few days later we were talking about what am I am going to do after college and I told her that after I get my degree I will move to Europe and open something up. Then she told me that I should move to Switzerland because its pretty lol. So I told her that I don't know German and she told me that she does and she told me that we could get married move to Switzerland and have a baby.
But earlier I over heard her saying something about her boyfriend. What should I do, one thing that kind of holds me back is that we are working together, and I don't want to make things awkward between us.
Someone please please help.
N0help4u
Sep 10, 2013, 07:44 PM
Sounds like she is being flirty with you or she is checking options in case she breaks up with her boyfriend.
Brandonmys
Sep 10, 2013, 09:34 PM
She's either not really in another relationship and you're working yourself up about nothing, she's a girl that likes attention and she's playing you, she's confused about whether she should stay with her boyfriend, or she's just joking around with you thinking you know it's a joke. With what you said above it sounded a lot like the second one.
Oliver2011
Sep 11, 2013, 05:52 AM
You are pretty smooth with the girls huh? She expresses an interest and you tell her you are going to move. If she expresses an interest again tell her you are thinking about asking her coworker out.
Seriously - you two are taking this way too fast. When you rush a relationship it will be doomed to fail. But by your responses you don't seem to be gaga over her. You should continue with your dreams and moving your life forward.
Jake2008
Sep 11, 2013, 06:05 AM
She could simply be flirting with you.
Or, she could be looking for an excuse (you) to save her from herself. Which means swoop her up in your arms, take her away from the responsibilities she has to another (her boyfriend), fly off across the sea and live happily ever after.
It is a story, a vivid imagination, and not meant to be taken as any sort of sign she's interested in you.
That she openly makes herself 'cute' and 'attractive' and 'interesting' is only superficial.
Never a good idea to mess around with someone elses' girlfriend anyway. Stay out of the picture entirely, stop the flirting, and let this one go.
Homegirl 50
Sep 11, 2013, 08:32 AM
Sounds like she is just flirting. You've only know each other a few weeks. It can't be that serious. Plus she has a boyfriend. Leave that alone! Playing where you work is never a good idea anyway.