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brownskhottie
Sep 8, 2013, 03:13 PM
I recently told my child's father to leave after a lot of times taking him back twice. We have been together for four years and the last two has been in turmoil. Most of my pregnancy I had to deal with infidelity. My daughter is six months and the infidelity has grown stronger on his end and my trust has gotten weaker.

He has lied and said he would work hard not to hurt me but recently a month ago I caught him taking to a women on Facebook who knew where we stand. Because I was so upset and hurt I told him to come get his things once he was done visiting his mom for her birthday dinner. Because he wouldn't cater to my needs I got mad called him all sort of names. He said I'm coming home Sunday I said no just come get your things now its three weeks later. I never went on his Facebook page nor did I call him until yesterday to see if he's going to get his clothes he never answered my call nor returned my text. Is it my fault I was hurt and reacting like that or is it I can't l let go. He hasn't asked about our baby

N0help4u
Sep 8, 2013, 04:06 PM
You need to leave it go. If he were man enough to care he would not have left things go this far.

Fr_Chuck
Sep 8, 2013, 07:20 PM
It is never one persons fault, there are always issues of both parties.

It sounds like it is over, let it go and move on