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Sharla1396
Aug 30, 2013, 01:59 PM
I am very frustrated and not sure what to do. On the first day of school I met this amazing guy, lets call him John. John and I have two classes together and he flirts with me a little bit nothing extreme.

I found out today that he is basically the man of the school-every girl is stalking him, following him around, I mean super creepy. Here I am trying to lay low and not over do it. Well today went very well he said he will draw me a picture (he's an artist) and he gave me his number, he rubbed my back, when he saw me at break. Well in 6th period the girl who is known for being easy at my school decided to act real uh flirty you could say and give him her number. I was oddly very upset. We aren't even dating and I was so jealous that she was over there talking to him.

I think some of you will tell me to let it go, I know I'm not going to marry him, but what do I do? Ask to hang out? Should I try and forget him? I just need some help on what to do, how to act I guess. I'm a little out of practice. It's been about 6 months since I've even been able to talk to any guy.

So thank you everyone I would appreciate it if you all gave kind advice and not put me down thanks (:

N0help4u
Aug 30, 2013, 02:21 PM
One thing I can tell you is notice how he acts toward these other girls. Is he flirting? Is he just friendly and showing no real interest? Guard your emotions and don't let them get the better of you.

Sharla1396
Aug 30, 2013, 02:25 PM
Thank you! So far I think he's being more friendly than flirty... but I also don't see him with every girl. I'll be careful and try not to over think things thank you so much

Homegirl 50
Aug 30, 2013, 02:29 PM
Chill. Do you even really know this guy? It's just the beginning of school. He sounds like a friendly guy. That's all.

talaniman
Aug 30, 2013, 03:22 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/how-do-get-guy-like-696215.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/guy-advice-714316.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/guy-advice-728444.html

Slow down this is but another crush you have had in the last year or so, and if you are jealous now, you will really be jealous if this guy is as popular a you say he is with the ladies. That make you one of many, and he probably likes all of you. I think you should lay low and keep your eyes open and see what the deal is with this fellow,

Sharla1396
Aug 30, 2013, 04:23 PM
Thank you for the advice. I will try and let it go. You're right he probably isn't going to be the right guy if he is such a ladies man. Thanks again!(: