Been dating this girl for a year and 8 months. She is 24 years old ,I'm 22 years old. Our relationship became rocky after the 5th month we dated I moved in with her in her mother's house and I thought I finally found the woman that was meant for me and all the soppy stuff...

Then she started chasing me away and after we had fights and then one day she broke up with me. And she came back and said she made a mistake. And that wasn't the end of it I'm afraid. 7 similar events accourd over the course of the last year and 3 months. (She says she doesn't know if wants to be together anymore etc.) and I always just took her back and forgave her ,because I actually loved her and I think I still do in way. (It happened a total of 8 times)

This past weekend she came to me and she moaned about how my friend went for a girl that her little brother likes and her little brother is upset and sad about. I didn't really care about the situation because they both are grown men (22 years old) and it's none of our business. It's their problem and they have to sort it out. Then she was weird for the remainder of the whole weekend. Very depressed and not really replying to my messages. So I thought I would not bother her and leave her alone and give her some space to work through the situation.

She came to me Monday and I was very worried about her because she was so negative in her text messages earlier the morning. Then that afternoon after work she came to my house and she all happy and smiling. At that point I felt very confused and I ask her what's going on ? Thought you were negative etc. And she denied everything and I got mad we had a fight and we eventually sorted the fight out.

Then yesterday(Wednesday) she came to visit me again after work and we lay down on the bed and chatted about random things and then I mentioned to her at one point that two of my friends know we are sleeping together. She flipped out and completely over-reacted. She told me how can I tell them that ? I made a promise to her that I will never tell anybody. And I was completely caught off guard by her reaction and I told her that it's not like I went and told the entire world about it. I tried to hold her to comfort her. She shook me away and told me I shouldn't touch her. I got very mad and stormed out of room and ignored her for an hour or two. She came to me telling me she wants to go home. I told her fine and I walked her to her car and she left.

Today she text me: why did I tell my friends ?
And I told her I honestly can't remember it was very long ago.
And she told me she is very hurt and feels very betrayed by me and I have broken her trust.
She then told me we are over and she doesn't want to be together anymore.
At that moment I decided she won't hurt my feeling again for the 9th time. I told her fine goodbye.
I went on Facebook and made my status to single ,changed my profile picture and deleted her off my friends list.

I text her as to the reason why she is breaking up with me and she told me no I broke her trust and I betrayed her and we are not fighting too much. So is it just me or is her reason for leaving me just a little stupid ?
I feel like there's more to this than she is reveling.
Any thoughts??

You have been through this 7 times before so what's so different about this time? I will tell you. You decided to make this the last time and taken the steps of erasing her and changing your status. So why text and ask her what's the latest excuse for a breakup?

She is a drama queen and you go along with it, so if you can't stick by your own guns and be done with it, then expect no more than what you have gotten. More stupid excuses, and plenty of drama.

Leave her alone dude, and see if the mood swings back, or better yet, take the opportunity to run like hell from this weirdo. I mean how many times do you get dumped over BS? Once should have been enough. Those are my thoughts.

Totally agree. When you are to the point where you are counting the dramatic times, it is time to move on. Relationship that are without drama are so much better. Some people are just hell bent on creating drama. She sounds like one of those people. Do yourself a favor and give her the boot.

Why you keep letting her play you like a pull toy? She knows what she's doing- 'at her convenience'. You can't figure her out and you can not fix her. Dump her like yesterdays bad news.

Hey guys thanks for replying. I appreciate your thoughts and advice this has been a eye opener for me personally. So thank you for your support