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BrittenxD
Aug 21, 2013, 12:00 PM
So there's this guy.. Haha obviously. When we met, I had a boyfriend. He was single. I really liked him though. Secretly. Well he ended up getting a girlfriend. A total psychopath. We were pretty good friends, and she hated me for it. Still does. Well this school year.. They broke up. And him and I went to this dance together. By then I was already head over heels for this guy. And he kept telling me how beautiful I was. And we danced. And I thought he was going to make a move. But he never did. Then him and his girlfriend got back together. And a few days later we were hanging out. And she left. He pulled me onto his lap and started tickling me so I would kind of move forward. He kissed me. And that went on for like a week. Me telling him that he needs to end it with me. Or her. Cause I felt super bad. He said it was the first time he'd done it. And he left her. We got together like a week later. We dated for three months. Almost exactly. When I got a screen shot of his at the time ex and a friend. His ex saying that they were together and stuff. He flipped out cause I "believed what other people were saying" and left me. I talked to her a few days later and she kept bragging on how he cheated on me with her the whole time we were dating. He denied it. Im still not sure who to believe. Because she's been known to lie. A lot. I stopped talking to him. For a few months. But he came back. Three days. And he broke up with me saying he "needed to be single" which after like the third time I found out meant "I'm dumping you to go back to her" well we stayed talking. And I hated her. I always have. But I tried to become friends and stop the drama. He showed up at my house one morning. And he kissed me again. And that started like two months of skipping class. And hiding in corners making out and avoiding her. And by that point I hated her so much that it almost felt.. Good. (I know... Horrible) and then he broke up with her. I never actually knew for sure they were together. He never told me. I just had what my friends were saying. But we kept out thing. And one day he told me they were done for good. We got back together. I don't think I could've been happier. I put our past behind us. I tried trusting him again. I just wanted it to work. Well one day he left school with one of our friends for a few hours. And when he came back it was right before 5th hour. He said "get to class. I love you. I'll see you next hour" I didn't want to leave. Cause she was like right behind. And I'll never trust her. But I did. And the next hour came. And the next.. No sign of him.. Then he texts me asking if he could hang out with her. I said sure. Because I really didn't want to start a fight. And he never actually said good bye to me that day.. But I got on the bus. And some kid was like "you know that kid you were with, your boyfriend?" I said "yeah. What about him?" And he says "he was all over some girl in the hallway" and that upset me. But he didn't have minutes on his phone. Which meant he needed wifi to text me. Which he didn't have with her. I didn't hear from him that night. Or the day after. She rode the bus home. And earlier that month. She had made it a point to tell me that she only rode the bus home when she went to his house. Not to long after I got home. I realized why he hadn't talked to me. She lied to him and told him I made a fake Facebook and harassed her. I never did. I wouldn't. He believed her. And left. I told him I hated him and to stay away from me. I've never regretted something so much. But he texted me at the beginning of June being all flirty. Then never texted back. My mom blocked his number. And I've been begging her to unblock it. So he couldn't get a hold of me until he ran out of minutes. He texted me about a week ago. And I snuck out to see him. We just hung out. I think we were talking about us. And he said that she just keeps getting in the way. And his mom hates me. I have no idea why though. Never figured it out. But he kissed me. A lot. He wants me to move to Florida with him whenever I can. I said I would. But I wanted to be together now I'm not sure if he ever answered me. He texted me the next day. And I didn't hear from him sense. Until Just a few weeks ago. He called from his friends phone. And we hung out. Him kissing me. His friend making sure no one who knows his girlfriend or my family saw. He did cute things like ride with me on his skate board. And I almost started crying cause I missed him so much. And he kept asking me why I was crying. I just told him I wasn't. Well apparently when we were dating, he paid enough attention to me to be able to list everything I do when I'm going to cry. He did everything he could to cheer me up. So I pretended. His mom said that his girlfriend kept calling and texting to see where he was and who he was with. And in the middle of Kmart he screamed "that's because she's a ing control freak who needs to know where I am 24 ing 7" it's just.. The way he talks about her.. He doesn't like her.. He told me he tried forgetting about us. But couldn't. Like me. He pointed at this one keychain that said "you are loved" and said to me "thats you" and its so weird watching him love her.. Ya know? She doesn't treat him right, and I don't think he actually cares.. Because he's doing what he does when she's not around.. I want him back so bad.. He keeps texting me things like "hey beautiful" I just.. need him.. Now.. What can I do?

N0help4u
Aug 21, 2013, 12:33 PM
Think about it, he already wanted to leave you. He is accusing you for his convenience. If the believing a rumor SHE started he should be equally if not more mad with her.

N0help4u
Aug 21, 2013, 01:21 PM
See the thing is he is stringing you along. The rumor evidently is true or why else would he be going back to her? Why would he not get mad at her for starting the rumor to break you up?
He wants to keep you in the background for back up if things don't work out, or he likes the challenge of dangling 2 girls, or he wants to see how bad you want him back,. who knows why. Point being no matter what he is being selfish, he is toying with your emotions, so you should pick yourself up and pack your emotions for him and wash your hands of the drama.

Homegirl 50
Aug 21, 2013, 01:24 PM
You need to leave him alone. This is way too much drama. He stays with this girl because he wants to and when he needs a break from her he calls you up and you're there. This is not someone who cares about you. You need to start caring for yourself.