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Weslf
Aug 19, 2013, 04:30 PM
I'm a pianist , and student
I had a girl that I like.
She and me used to be together always .
Because I like her I used to send her relaxing music (piano music)
And she was happy to listen .
After realizing that she is not texting me . I stopped sending her relaxong piano music and stopped texting her.
After a week she texted me saying "you are bad man:/ why you are not sending me music :("
I told her "because you are not talking with me like before :(" (no interest).
This week she texted me many times .
But sadly all of them are indirect she talks about general things.
Like :" how can I finish this lesson"
And nt : " how are you " direct questions :/.
Does she asking these questions to gain me back ? Or no ?

joypulv
Aug 19, 2013, 04:49 PM
How long was 'used to be together always?'
(Always seems to be over... )
Maybe she wants more than sweet music. Women do like sweet music you play yourself, but they can't live without words.
One of you has to start talking real talk, the kind of talk that means something. You are waiting for her to start, and she is waiting for you.
You could start with 'I think about you every time I turn left, or right, and put my shoes on, and open the fridge, and hear a woman's voice' -- you know, funny and romantic but also meaningful. Like what you did today, and what your hopes are for your future, and how they include her.