I'm a 35yr old woman with 3 teen aged children. I've always been with a man and have no troubles finding a boyfriend however I've never had an orgasum and don't find having oral done to me very pleasurable but I do In fact love giving my guy oral, I don't masturbate and can go for a long time without sex, (eighteen month) I tend to dry up when his fingers go near my vagina.
Recently I have been having dreams about woman, nobody I know. The dreams are amazing and wakes me to the point I'm going to , it feels like what I would think an orgasum would feel like if I were awake, every part of my body tingles. But when I'm awake I can't picture myself with a woman, doing oral to her, dating, kissing etc.
Not sure what's going on, But I would like to find my sex life.

In dreams another woman represents an aspect of yourself. It is representing the side of your desire. Nothing to do with another woman.

Agree, in dreams, the person is normally opposite of dream.

Why do you not masturbate, that is the first issue to deal with. Learn to please yourself, teach him to please you.

Most women do not orgasm during regular sex, but in foreplay, after play and so on.