So I sent a man a bra pucture of me and my face was in the picture, now he's blackmailing me to do stuff or he's going to send it on social networking sites what do I do?

Tell him that you aren't that stupid to send your own pic so you googled a bunch of images until you found that one. Or have you already complied to his blackmail demands?

I would but I used a camera app on kik and he knows I'm real and not a fake :/

How old are you? How old is he?

If he is blackmailing you for more pics you realize in the end when Its all said and done he can post it all. You need to find a way to turn this around or report it to someone.

He will post it anyway at some point, that is risk of sending photos online, I will guess or assume it is naked photos.

You report him to the police for blackmail, ( this is best)
Or you stop any contact with them, and if they post anything, report to police

If it's a picture of you in a bra, then it is not that bad. Do you think if you send more revealing pictures at his command that this won't just keep continuing? Now he will have nude pics of you to threaten you with. Tell him to stuff it... and report him if he continues.

However, if you are underage, the advice changes a little. It would help to know your age and the general area that you live in.

I understand what I did was completely stupid and I honestly tjought he liked me. I'm 16, and just adding a bit more information he not asking for nudes he's asking for an online relationship and a sexting buddy which I feel unvomfortable with but also because I shouldn't have sent the pic which clearly means its all my fault this is happening

He's not blackmailing me gor more pics he's asking for a relationship and a sexting buddy :/


How old are you? How old is he?

I know its wrong what I did but its hard to explain I genuinely thought he liked me, I'm 16, he's 19


he will post it anyway at some point, that is risk of sending photos online, I will guess or assume it is naked photos.

You report him to the police for blackmail, ( this is best)
or you stop any contact with them, and if they post anything, report to police
How am I supposed to report it, its my own fault and all I know he lives in england

Never assume 'thought he liked me' with internet. What state do you live in because in some States he can get in trouble not only blackmailing but also corrupting morals of a minor, depending on your state law.

Never assume 'thought he liked me' with internet. What state do you live in because in some States he can get in trouble not only blackmailing but also corrupting morals of a minor, depending on your state law.

I know I did wrong and I live in england too.

Life is full of lessons. You got to figure out where to go from here

Life is full of lessons. You got to figure out where to go from here
I agree but honestly I'm just wonderring if I've made a dumb desicision by blocking him and thank you for your help

Blocking is good. Just watch your pic doesn't show up anywhere

Blocking is good. Just watch your pic doesnt show up anywhere

Okay and thank you for your advise

I know this is in the question section, but thank you to every one who tried helping me out today... 15/08/2013

Be strong and don't let things get to you. Time has a way of working things out if you go for your goals and don't let things be an obstetrical. You can learn to handle your emotions.

Be strong and don't let things get to you. Time has a way of working things out if you go for your goals and don't let things be an obstetrical. You can learn to handle your emotions.

Obstetrical? Don't you mean an obstacle?

Be strong and don't let things get to you. Time has a way of working things out if you go for your goals and don't let things be an obstetrical. You can learn to handle your emotions.


Thank you and it honestly means a lot to have gotten help from you today thank you :)

obstetrical? Don't you mean an obstacle?

Its just a misspelling no big deal

obstetrical? Don't you mean an obstacle?

Yeah my auto INcorrect cell phone changes words

yeah my auto incorrect cell phone changes words


Its fine :) its not big deal

Yeah my auto INcorrect cell phone changes words

That is such a pain so does my IPad. You have to check it all the time!

Yeah whoever programmed auto correct needs FIRED