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lalakaylove
Aug 12, 2013, 08:42 PM
My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue exactly a month ago. We dated for six months and for the first three weeks of the break up we kept contact. The first two flirting and kissing. Then the last as friends because I told him I still had feelings for him. This past week we got in an argument for the stupidest thing ever where I ended up calling him a motherf***er. I apologized and told him I cared about him. He responded saying "yeah me too, but no one has ever called me a motherf***er. Especially by someone that means a lot to me. I don't have anything to say to you right now. Yes I want it to work but I don't know what to say right now" I apologized again and told him I would give him space.

He hasn't replied since, and its been three days and I still miss him like crazy. I know I shouldn't text him and I'm not because I told him I would give him space but do you guys think that if he sees me moving on will he miss me? Will he ever reply? I miss him and would do anything to get him back. How can I show him I moved on with out dating.

Anonymous_619
Aug 12, 2013, 09:12 PM
Well sweetie it is in a matter of 3 steps.
1. Let him see you with another guy. Maybe just you and a friend going out for some dinner or a movie
2. Try and be friends. Don't skip to the more than friends part to fast. You got to give him a chance to remember how great you are and how caring you can be.
3. Don't try and start a argument, no matter how pissed off at him you may be. And complement him all the time.

P.s. try and meet in person. It helps

Fr_Chuck
Aug 12, 2013, 10:15 PM
Does not work that way,

If you want him back, give up self respect and beg him to take you back.

Or talk with him as a normal person and see if you can work over the issues.

MOVING one is just that, to move one and forget the other person. Not to get them back.
Best thing you can do, for real, actually move on, stop contact, don't talk to him,

If you break up, you don't still fight "last week" you ignore and move on.

Homegirl 50
Aug 13, 2013, 05:01 AM
Moving on is just that. You don't do it to make him miss you.
After 6 months he broke up with you, why? You two were still messing around and you told him you still had feelings and he backed off. My guess is he is not in to you as a girlfriend anymore and after the argument, not as a friend either.
I suggest you move on and forget him.

N0help4u
Aug 13, 2013, 11:48 AM
Moving on will not show him you are going to change the way you handle situations where you get mad enough to call him names nor will it show that you are deeply regretting what you did.

talaniman
Aug 13, 2013, 09:44 PM
There is no game you can play to get him back, so keep leaving him alone and rebuild a life that you enjoy without him, with, or without dating (you are probably a lousy date pining for someone else). He has dumped you twice now so take a hint about a failed relationship, and now a failed friendship.

Something wasn't right in the first place.

Jake2008
Aug 13, 2013, 10:37 PM
It doesn't sound like you've moved on at all.

If the month you've been 'broken up' only meant seeing him less, but still kissing and acting like you were together, then you have not begun to accept the end of the relationship, let alone move on.

Making him jealous by having him think he's lost you so he'll come back, is a game that doesn't work out in my opinion. The bottom line is, the reasons for the breakup are still there.

If the relationship is over, then it's over. Moving on will mean living your life without him.

LittleLeeLee
Sep 15, 2013, 10:00 AM
If a man wants to be with you, he will be. It's really that simple.

a.) give him SPACE.
b.) give YOURSELF space
c.) this means no initiating contact

It is really hard to do, I am doing it at the moment. If he wants to be with me he will be and I do not mean in the sense of, "if it's mean to be it will be" because there is a lot you can do to improve your chances of a future together but at the end of the day you can not change peoples' minds. RAISE YOUR OWN VALUE, for yourself and for him to see but remember - no contact rules are set in place for you to move on and sometimes it allows the other person to realize that you are what they want.

My boyfriend asked me for space. We had been arguing a lot. As soon as he asked me for space, I cried and did just that. No callling, no texting, no Facebook and 5 days later he texted me asking how I was. I am obviously on his mind BUT I am not going to assume that this means anything. It may just mean that he misses me, not necessarily that he wants to get back together. Male psychology is OBVIOUSLY different from female psychology, no amount of begging and pleading will bring him back to you. Time heals all wounds, yours and his and if he realizes that you are the one he wants to be with, he will come back, I promise.

If and when I respond it will be a short, sweet answer. I am positive about my life and the direction I am heading in. If he wants to be a part of my life, then he is more than welcome to but if not then I know someone else will. Good luck.