I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years... at first (1 year) sex was good and sometimes great... now its just flat out awful. We literally never have sex and when we do do something it's me jacking him off (he doesn't touch or kiss me) with the t.v. blaring in the background. I feel ugly, unloved and just all around bad.

Why do you put up with this?

Echoing Wondergirl, because she's wonderful, why are you still there? Leave. This won't change and I don't think that you'll be able to accept this for the rest of your life.