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Alison_Love
Aug 2, 2013, 07:02 AM
He's about 10 years older than me as he's just finished his degree. We had known each other when he came for training last year for 3 months and through interacting, I became attracted to him because of his caring personality and many other positive traits. After those 3 months, I came to realize I missed him, and with my friends and classmates constantly teasing about me and him being together, I now know that I like him that way. He had once told me in front of the entire class I was his favorite student and he actually took notice and showed concern about me. Even now when he isn't taking my class for PE anymore, he would still ask about me through my friends, and show concern to me when I'm sick and absent from school.
What do I do? Should I pursue a relationship with him after graduating from school? Do you think he's interested in me?
Thank you so much and I'll really appreciate it If you can answer this question for me!
smoothy
Aug 2, 2013, 07:12 AM
Avoid it at all costs... it would appear and raise the suspicion that something was going on before you graduated and that possibility is all it will take to ruin his career... and there have been cases in the news where that happened...
Find someone else...
Wondergirl
Aug 2, 2013, 07:37 AM
It doesn't matter if he's interested in you. Ethically for him, you are off limits, even after you graduate.
Fr_Chuck
Aug 2, 2013, 07:44 AM
As you said in question, after you graduate, yes, go back and talk to him. Before you graduate, just be a nice student to him
N0help4u
Aug 2, 2013, 04:08 PM
I think I would be too embarrassed to tell him how I felt and ask about a relationship even years after graduating. It could be very awkward and embarrassing on so many ways it could play out. Do you really think he will think your feelings are more than a crush? He may be flattered and turn you down or he may feel a need to avoid you because he doesn't feel the same.
teacherjenn4
Aug 2, 2013, 05:49 PM
No, he's not interested in you romantically. He is a good, caring teacher. Leave him alone and don't bother him.
JudyKayTee
Aug 3, 2013, 07:33 AM
"After those 3 months, I came to realize I missed him, and with my friends and classmates constantly teasing about me and him being together, "
This is a potential career end for him - leave him alone and don't be the cause of gossip about him.
talaniman
Aug 3, 2013, 07:54 AM
How old are you? Don't let your schoolgirl crush get you in trouble. Is PE phys ed?
forevermytc
Aug 11, 2013, 12:22 AM
I also have a crush on my teacher. If you would ever like to talk I'm always open =)