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ChanTelleeY
Aug 1, 2013, 09:35 PM
So I've been working with this guy for a while now, I can't remember how long, and I really like him. He and I are always flirting with each other and he's told me before that he thinks I'm amazing and that he wouldn't change anything about me. But... He has a girlfriend. I don't know what to say for fear of hurting him or his girlfriend, and getting hurt myself. I also don't want to lose his friendship.

What do I do? What can I say to him? Help! :(

odinn7
Aug 1, 2013, 09:57 PM
Uhhh... why is this such a problem? Were you going out with him? So he has a girlfriend, you treat him like the friend he was before.

Alty
Aug 1, 2013, 10:23 PM
He has a girlfriend. This is really simple. If he thought you were amazing enough to date, he'd dump his girlfriend. He hasn't. That means you're a friend, and nothing more. So you say nothing, and do nothing. He's not into you like you're into him.

Homegirl 50
Aug 2, 2013, 05:46 AM
He's not trying to date you his he? You don't need to say anything. Get your feelings under control. You are a coworker to him.