Hi, I'm hoping that you can put my mind at rest with any knowledge that you may have... I will explain... I had sex with a friend it was unprotected but he didn't ejaculate inside me or even come close. 2 days later (bang on que!) I then got my period. I always have a regular /2728/29 day cycle...

About 2 weeks later (13 days from the start of my period) I then slept with my ex (he did ejaculate inside me)... 11 days after the deed, I got paranoid that I could be pregnant so took a test off eBay (those cheap early detect ones) however it was negative.. . I missed my period then took another different, more expensive test and it was positive and very faint (do you think that was because I had not long been pregnant? Making my ex the dad?)

I have had my 8 and 12 week scan and the baby measured 1 day off sex with my ex on both scans. I am now worrying that it was my friend who got me pregnant (although I had a period and negative test which would have been 26 days after sex with my friend).

I know that sex 2 days before my period I would not have been ovulating and then my period came as normal. Also as I said he didn't ejaculate in me and my ex did. What are your thoughts?. Thank you sooo much

You will have to get DNA tests. The only way you could tell is if it was weeks to months apart.

False negatives are very common, so a negative after sex with the friend, doesn't mean you weren't pregnant.

Scans are a best guess and can be off 2 weeks either way (up to a month). In other words, you can't figure out when you got pregnant based on a scan.


know that sex 2 days before my period I would not have been ovulating

So you've been tracking ovulation using basal temperature readings for at least 6 months? Or are you guessing when you ovulate based on an app or online tracking? If you haven't been tracking with the basal temperature, you have no idea when you ovulated. You can get pregnant during your period, many women have.

In other words, based on what you wrote, there's no way to put your mind at ease. Either guy could be the father. You'll have to wait until the baby is born and do a DNA test.

First test could not be positive, tests will not test that early,

Yes it could be the first man. Not as likely but yes, very possible.

Scans are not that exact, and are based on average sizes.

So you will just have to get a DNA test when child is born to be sure