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worriedmuch1020
Jul 24, 2013, 07:56 AM
>Threads merged to keep all information on this subject in one place.<

Hi I'm 22. My boyfriend and I cuddle last July 7. I'm not sure if I'm fertile but my last mense started June 15.but we didn't do much.. he just fingered me a lot and do stuffs under me using his tongue. Then I just made him bj once and after that he cumms... his precum reach my hair but just the end strands of it then he immediately do it at the comfort room himself. Minutes after.. he fingered me again knowing that he washed his hands then we went shower together where I did wash my hair too. Then he fingered me again while on the shower then that's it.im 9 days delay now and its not usual. I'm almost at 39 day cycle that's way too long.. do you think I got pregnant that way? Please help been so worried this past week and even stressing me out at work.

JudyKayTee
Jul 24, 2013, 08:01 AM
I'm not sure if there was or was not pre ejaculate involved and, if so where - same with semen.

I do know you are playing a dangerous game. I also know that if you think semen (or pre ejaculate) in your hair can cause pregnancy you have no business having sex.

Only time will tell if you are pregnant - wait until you are 10 days late, buy a HPT, use it according to directions.

worriedmuch1020
Jul 24, 2013, 08:05 AM
Thanks for the reply. I know its quite impossible but I'm just really worried about it. I even tell him I'm delayed but he said he is pretty much sure he washed his hands and never touch me with wet hands. :(

JudyKayTee
Jul 24, 2013, 08:11 AM
My concern is that you say you "didn't do much" and then go on to describe mutual oral sex, "fingering," showering together, pre ejaculate in your hair (or if there was oral sex, semen), more "fingering" - that sounds like you did a lot, and I'm not sure which steps you took in between.

Rather than worrying, wouldn't birth control be a good choice?

And only time will tell.

worriedmuch1020
Jul 26, 2013, 04:47 AM
Hi I'm 22.. 11 days delay was fingered by my boyfriend last July 7 but he just cumms once afer my handjob and was sure he washed his hands before touching me. I never get this late on my period not more than 3-5 days.. I took pregnancy test yesterday and this morning (just to be sure) and it was negative. Do you think I could be pregnant? What day is the advisable day to take pregnancy test? And I've been stressed out of work this past week can that affect my period over 11 days delay is that possible? Help don't know what to do.

tickle
Jul 26, 2013, 05:01 AM
What has his finger got to do with YOUR handjob?

worriedmuch1020
Jul 26, 2013, 05:13 AM
What has his finger got to do with YOUR handjob?

I mean he fingered me after I gave him a handjob

tickle
Jul 26, 2013, 05:19 AM
i mean he fingered me after i gave him a handjob

I still don't get it, unless his hands were involved in your ministrations and he received ejaculate on his hands.

tickle
Jul 26, 2013, 05:20 AM
Threads merged but this is very confusing

ScottGem
Jul 26, 2013, 05:42 AM
It does not take penile insertion to get semen into the vaginal canal. While it is unlikely that this happened, its not impossible.

tickle
Jul 26, 2013, 06:00 AM
It does not take penile insertion to get semen into the vaginal canal. While it is unlikely that this happened, its not impossible.
If not too much time elapsed, true, but still trying to figure out how his fingers got involved with her hand job unless she is just not too observant, which appears may be the case :)

JudyKayTee
Jul 26, 2013, 07:35 AM
Didn't I already answer this once?

joypulv
Jul 26, 2013, 07:47 AM
Didn't I already answer this once?

Yes, twice, but she asked again later in another post. Looking for the answer she wants I guess.