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dgp9970
Jul 24, 2013, 01:11 AM
My Name is Dhruv, I'm studying in 5th semester of engineering.
I'm in an innocent relationship with a girl from 8th standard, I don't know how I liked her how I started loving her,
I lost my brother just 6 months ago.
Now I'm the only son of my parents.
My Love named sana just told about me at her home that we are in relationship.
But her parents are so orthodox that they are not ready for Love marriage, they forcing to sana that if she gets engaged then only she can study further.
I don't want to happen this.
If she will get engaged once then my parents will not allow me to get marry with her.
I'm still 20 years old and I can't get marry with her in court.
Within 1 month they will force her to get engaged with othet guy and he is 3 years younger than my Sanu.
She is telling me that she will die iff this happned.
Plzz answer me friendss what should I do at this stage?
I'm just so helpless.
N my parents telling me that iff her parents are ready to accept This relation than and only than I will accept you otherwise I will not allow you to enter home.
Please friendss help me what should I do?

joypulv
Jul 24, 2013, 03:56 AM
Ask her for a day and time that she can introduce you to her parents. Dress in a suit and tie (or traditional clothes), bring a gift of food and some flowers, and tell them that you have excellent career prospects and can provide well for their daughter. Mention love and compatibility in just one sentence. Tell them you respect them as her parents and will love them too. Have your short speech memorized. Stand up and thank them for their time and prepare to leave but pause for a second or two in case they speak. Then leave if they don't.
Other than that, you have some tough choices to make. Or more correctly, SHE has some tough choices to make, about losing her family and schooling. Maybe you can help her finish school if her parents disown her.