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victoria_knows_
Jul 14, 2013, 07:59 PM
A lot of people were saying that my boyfriend(now ex ) was saying degrading things about me behind my back he denied it but boys tend to talk about their girls differently with their "boys" keep in mind I never asked him in person so I never got to observe body language a girl who had a crush on him telling me things he'd said about me that were rude and they were very close to something I heard him say with my own ears so how could she make it up, later asking my boyfriend he said , " no she just likes me and is trying to break us up I don't even talk to her --btw I've seen them talking in school on more than 2 occasions . 2 other girls told me similar things AND 3 other boys one being my ex . He always denied these accusations and after a while got mad and said "w.e" a day later he was begging for my forgiveness . The last incident my best friend told me she heard him say something in the lunch line and that was the deal breaker . My boyfriend (now ex ) was always mad when I was hanging around other guys friendly but did the same things when I wasn't around .after we broke up he moved onto another girl he barely knew a week later but that didn't last long and now he is hitting me up again






SIDENOTE: while we were apart and he was saying this girl he kept posting sad Chris Brown song while when we were together he always played Chris Brown love songs. Currently he keeps looking my pictures and liking love songs I post but after a whole month he still hasn't contacted me, what should I do? Thanks in advance

N0help4u
Jul 14, 2013, 08:05 PM
He is immature . Don't waste your time.

victoria_knows_
Jul 14, 2013, 08:10 PM
Yeah thank you :)

Fr_Chuck
Jul 14, 2013, 08:12 PM
You were totally out of line believing some other girl, you sound by the experience to be maybe preteen and do not have a lot of experience in dating.

Yes boys talk different and sometimes may talk sexual or dirty, but normally they do not, once they are actually mature and adult, this is more Jr High or High school activity.

No wonder your boyfriend got mad, you keep accusing him, he will get tired of it and leave you, that is normal

johannsson35
Jul 14, 2013, 08:53 PM
As the others have stated, he sounds immature... as do you. If you're not mature enough or have trust in a relationship, you should not have one. You sound young anyways; enjoy life while you can! Don't waste your time dating and other stuff like that at this stage in life.