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lovestinks21
Jul 11, 2013, 01:57 PM
So I've never posted on this site before but everyone seems really mature and honest so I thought I'd give it a try because I need some help here.

Ok so I've been working with this guy for almost a year and he's always been nice to me and we've been friends since we started working together. At first it was just that, friendly but then it started to get a little more flirty and another coworker even made a comment about it (joking around) and he told me he wasn't flirting with me and I was like OK because I figured it was just him being friendly. Well that was about 8 months ago and since then he started flirting with me a lot more. It's not over the top to where it's weird or anything but he calls me pretty and smiles really big when I see him.

He told be he had a girlfriend right around the time we first met but he just mentioned that fact in casual conversation and that's all he ever does. I don't even know her name and he hardly ever talks about her. I know they've been together for about 3 years but I don't know how close they are now and that 3 years was when they were in high school (they graduated now).

The thing is I think I kind of like this guy and I would like to get to know him better. I just don't know what to do about the fact that he has a girlfriend and he constantly flirts with me and For the record we've never kissed or done anything. What should I do?

tickle
Jul 11, 2013, 02:30 PM
If you want a mature answer from a mature woman, I would have to say back off. He is already in a relationship and if he can't respect that, you should.

Homegirl 50
Jul 11, 2013, 03:46 PM
Leave him alone. He has a girlfriend. He could be just being nice, if he is flirting and has a girlfriend then he is not a cool guy to be doing that. Leave him alone

talaniman
Jul 11, 2013, 04:52 PM
Stay within the boundaries of good behavior and keep it just friend, and co worker. Never forget he is taken.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 12, 2013, 06:39 AM
He has a girlfriend, that is all that matters. He is off limits, also just think about this? He will flirt with you, and have a girlfriend, if you were his girlfriend, he will do the same with other girls.

IAO123
Jul 25, 2013, 12:04 PM
I say you back off he has a girlfriend things can end up ugly show him you're not interested he'll leave you alone then.

JudyKayTee
Jul 25, 2013, 06:52 PM
I always suggesting calling his girlfriend and asking her what she would like you to do - she'll undoubtedly give you an honest answer.