A few days ago my boyfriend went on vacation and the day he left a rumor of him cheating on me was told to everyone. She claims that she gave him a hand job in a car on the way to the airport and a blow job when they got back to her house a few weeks ago. I asked me boyfriend if it was true and he told me they had a thing before we met but had done nothing with her since we have been dating.

We have been dating for a year now. I went looking for the girl who said this happened and confronted her! When she told me the same story she told everyone else she didn't feel bad about a thing. She had hate in her eyes and no remorse for what she claimed she had done. I told my boyfriend that if he didn't tell the truth he would never hear from me again. He then admitted to a totally different story. He said that he was in the kitchen and she began to talk to him and then kissed him. He said he told her he couldn't do it and she got mad! I asked him why he lied and he said "I knew you wouldn't believe me and still would have been angry i didn't want you to leave me." I can't tell if he is telling the truth but I know she isn't either. How she told me it happened just didn't sound like something he would do. The fact he lied to me the first time makes me question everything now.

We have already broken up and he could easily admit to what she is saying. But he still said she kissed him and he said no. Do you think he's right? And she only kissed him? Or is she telling the truth?

It probably happened the way he said. Then she got mad because he had rejected her and started spreading the rumor.

In cases like this give him the benefit of the doubt. You know how rumors are and go. It's never good to mess up what you got until you have a string of circumstances, evidence and patterns.