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OK so my girlfriend lives in the Philippines and she is working as a cam girl. I live in Canada and I work overnights so she happens to be awake at the same time I am. We are both in our early 20's. I first met her online. We just started chatting with private messages while she did her shows. Currently we have been together for a little over three months.

The first month we have been together we would talk about our families and we quickly found out that we had a lot in common that's how our relationship started. I found out that she has had a very hard life. She is always so stressed. She is currently supporting her family with her earnings from her shows because she does not want her parents to work anymore. She wants to make them proud of her that she can support her family. She is the only one in her family who is working so she is currently the bread winner in her family right now. She is paying for everything rent, food, bills, etc. she has two sisters and two brothers. None of which are currently working, and a niece and a nephew and she is trying to support them all.

It very hard for me to be her boyfriend because I get jealous a lot from all the guys watching her. Hundreds of guys watching your naked girlfriend masturbate. How would you feel? So I asked her and she said they don't mean anything to her they are only customers to her. She acts nice to them only to get them to tip her. I trust her completely while she works. I know she would not cheat on me because her past boyfriends have all cheated on her. And I would never cheat on my girlfriend with other women.

Sometimes I would get sad when she started getting a little too friendly with a few of her regular customers. She would always get angry with me. She never once tried to comfort me and say that it's OK she always starts complaining about how I don't support her work and saying bad things about her customers. I understand that is just business but I can't help but get jealous I do every day, I try to keep it in but it always manages to come out. Now every time I get sad she's always like "here you go again" I hate it so much when she says that like I am just such a miserable person. I always try to support her during her work I have even sent her some money once just so her and her family could have food to eat because she had no money.

She has a certain quota she has to reach every half month in tokens or she does not get paid. So I occasionally buy tokens to help her out too. Anyway it is true I do get sad very easily. Like it makes me sad that she's logging in to her room on the site with the cam on fully naked before she will start chatting with me on Facebook to let me know that she is online. Then when I get into her room I already see like ten guys in there with her playing with her breasts and chatting with them. In my mind I am like What? Like she can't take 1 minute out of her getting ready for her show to come on Facebook first to let me know she is on. She is always constantly in pain whether it be a headache, back pain, stomach pains or something like that all the time. She is so stressed that her periods have become irregular it has been currently three months since her last period, and no she is not pregnant. I am just so worried that she is killing herself trying to get her parents to be proud of her.

I love her so much. I would do anything to make her happy. And I am always online on Facebook or Skype if she ever needs to just talk. I am planning on going to visit her early next year. I will not give up on her just because we argue all the time but I feel like she is going to break up with me because of all this. I just don't know what to do anymore please help I don't want to lose her.

She is sad because maybe that is not the life she wants,because she has too much responsibility for her age, because she gets jealousy from a boyfriend she never met rather than the encouragement

Dude, really? You're a mess.

I'm going to give it to you as I see it and you probably aren't going to like what I say but that's what you get...

She's using you. You are helping to support her and she is using you. I bet there are plenty of other guys that think they are special to her as well... all with the same game. Stop giving her money and see how long it all lasts.

You "met" her while she was doing this job and now you get sad that she does it. Get a grip. It would be different if you had been dating and she decided to do this but she was already doing it and now you get jealous... jealous over someone that is likely using you anyway. Listen to how that sounds... silly, right?

And come on now, think about this... she wants to make her family proud of her. Would you be proud of your daughter for performing online sex shows? Would you? Who is proud of their kid for doing something like that? Nobody.

Half the stuff she told you probably isn't true and half of that is probably an outright lie.

I know you don't want to hear this and you won't believe me and I also know that you're probably going to come back here and tell me how wonderful she is and why you know that I'm wrong about her. I won't go for it though because I know that I'm 99% right.

Stop wasting your time and money on her and find someone that you can actually see and touch... someone that doesn't do online sex shows that you will be jealous of... and stay away from dancers as well.

Eeerrrrr so much for reading on teeny screens. Bottom line, giving her the benefit of the doubt about using, ----your so called relationsip, can go nowhere unless you both thrive on drama and out doing each others pity.

Women like her prey on guys like you for a living, and know all the tricks. If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen, or grow up and stop being the whiney, insecure boyfriend. And that's just assuming your 3 month online "romantic" partner is telling the truth. If she is doesn't she have enough in her crappy life without you being a downer?

Sorry guy, you better control yourself better before it bites you.

Women like her prey on guys like you for a living, and know all the tricks. If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen, or grow up and stop being the whiney, insecure boyfriend. And that's just assuming your 3 month online "romantic" partner is telling the truth. If she is doesn't she have enough in her crappy life without you being a downer?

Sorry guy, you better control yourself better before it bites you.

Exactly

I have been have been in this relationship why my girlfriend for about 4 months now. She is a cam girl just to let you know. She has told me that she really dose trust me but I feel like its not true because she is keeping secrets from me. She dose not want me to know what she dose with her customers in her private shows or group shows. Even though I never have asked her that. One day while she was on she showed this eye dropper type thing on cam and was talking with a customer in a private message and I didn't care what they were going to do but I asked what she was going to use it for. And she got pissed at me for that. I just don't know what to do she says it is non of my business but it is to me because she is my girlfriend. I need help please

my girlfriend thinks i cheated on her, why do i feel the same about her

Hello again I have posted twice before about my piany cam girl girlfriend. I have another problem I have not talked about before. When we first started the relationship I said I would never cheat on her ever and I have kept that promise. So one day about 1 month into our relationship she caches me in a room of another cam girl, she got so pissed off at me, I apologized of course even though I didn't feel like I cheated on her. Would you really consider that cheating, like seriously it would be like saying you cheated on your girlfriend because you were watching porn. Also every day she flirts naked in front of hundreds of guys and has private , group and Skype shows were I have no idea what is going on in them. How I am I not supposed to feel like I am not being cheated on. She not even tell me what she dose in those shows . She gets angry with me when I have asked before I need some advice

Yes women consider that cheating, for most women it is the emotional also.

And yes many women consider watching porn cheating, do you not even read some of the questions on here, Read the ones from women, who are ready to leave because boyfriend looks at porn

There is either trust or not, does not seem like type of relationship where there is much

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You have posted over 5 posts since July 6 th on my girlfriend this my girlfriend that. Some of them have already been merged. Not many guys are cut out for girls that have that kind of work. Looks like you either play by her rules or get out.

This is in no way, shape, or form a relationship. This is a game. The fact that you, in Canada, can think she, in the Philippines, can be your girlfriend, is too much of a stretch.

Me thinks you are too immature to have a real relationship with a girl who is in Canada, let alone near you.

Did you ever think that maybe she's not jealous that you were watching another girl, but mad because she doesn't want to lose money to another girl?

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Oh sorry thanks for merging them

All of this drama comes with the territory of being an online boyfriend to a person in the sex trade in a far off country. Of course you don't trust each other. How can you when all of this extra stuff is going on? LOL, can't you see she doesn't want you getting hooked up with any other porn/webcam star, as you have her? Can't you see you wonder what she is doing with her customers? It's a crazy perfect storm for disaster, since you cannot bond, or build a life together, just keep each other company over the Internet a you go about your own lives and live in the fantasy world you both created around each other.

This relationship will never stand up against reality, because it's make believe at its best. You want something real and healthy, then find some real and healthy people to interact with, not some stranger you may never meet.

That's the epitome of desperate. It's insanity to hold onto this unhealthy fantasy you have created.

Why are you asking about anal sex with her? You are thousands of miles apart.
Are you living in some fantasy?

Why are you asking about anal sex with her? You are thousands of miles apart.
Are you living in some fantasy?

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