View Full Version : Unprotected sex! Need Help!
Katy marie
Jul 5, 2013, 03:20 AM
Well I had unprotected sex with a guy October 31 , he didn't ejaculate in me , got back with my boyfriend had sex with him through out November , my period came November 21 and lasted about 3-4 days real heavy, had unprotected sex again with that same Guy November 28 he used a condom and took it off during and didn't ejaculate inside me, I had sex with my boyfriend December 1st , 4th , 5th and he DID ejaculate inside me all them days now I'm pregnant who's the father?
Curlyben
Jul 5, 2013, 03:22 AM
Impossible to tell at this stage, but a DNA test AFTER the birth would define paternity without doubt.
Katy marie
Jul 5, 2013, 03:26 AM
If you can guess who would u say? I really need help!
Curlyben
Jul 5, 2013, 03:28 AM
It's the one you had sex with, for sure.
Katy marie
Jul 5, 2013, 03:30 AM
Which one? The 1st Guy or my boyfriend?
Curlyben
Jul 5, 2013, 03:31 AM
Seriously, it's IMPOSSIBLE to determined at present.
Katy marie
Jul 5, 2013, 03:39 AM
But I only had unprotected sex with that Guy twice and the last time we used a condom and he didn't ejaculate in me at all! And I had sex with my boyfriend and he did ejaculate inside me now I'm pregnant ,l lost & confused! Ughh I need someone to help me!
Curlyben
Jul 5, 2013, 03:41 AM
Because the encounters where so close, it really is impossible to determine paternity beyond doubt.
The ONLY surefire method is a DNA test of the potential fathers,
Cat1864
Jul 5, 2013, 04:55 AM
had unprotected sex again with that same Guy November 28 he used a condom and took it off during and didn't ejaculate inside me
No form of birth control is 100% effective. Condoms can have microscopic holes which are still large enough to allow sperm to get through. If he took the condom off while still having intercourse then you have to add the human failure to properly use a condom to the odds. If he put the condom on after entering you, misuse again adds to the failure rate.
He doesn't have to ejaculate inside you to have enough sperm present to fertilize an egg. Pre-ejaculate (the male version of lubrication) can contain sperm. Since its job is to lubricate the penis, it is released long before the male ejaculates. That is the reason condoms are supposed to be put on before the penis gets near the vagina and to be kept on until after ejaculation.
This may seem harsh to you, but we cannot give you a definite answer as to whether Male 1 or Male 2 impregnated you. You had sex with two men in the time frame of a couple of days. It could be either of them. Only a DNA test will be able to tell which one.
For now, you need to calm down and think about having a healthy baby. Regardless of who the father is, you are the mother. Take care of yourself and your child, prepare to welcome your baby into your arms, and make arrangements for a DNA test.
You had sex with two men in the time frame of a couple of days. It could be either of them
And believe it or not, if you were pregnant with twins it could be BOTH of them.
JudyKayTee
Jul 5, 2013, 08:04 AM
So tell both possible fathers that you are pregnant and will get DNA testing when the baby is born.
In some States you can file for paternity when you are pregnant, before the baby is born. You would name all of the possible fathers.
Which State are you in?