OK so I had recently lost my virginity and I found some blood on my under ware when I got home that night.. the next day I got my period and I wanted to know if its normal to get your period after losing your virginity. Also another thing I would like to know is. I didn't bleed throughout the sex but I felt a sharp pain and I wanted to know if my hymen ripped or if my cherry popped. Is there something wrong with me if I didn't bleed?

Your hymen IS your 'cherry.' It might have torn years ago, just being active/athletic, not even from putting anything in your vagina. No one can tell if a girl has had intercourse or not.
I wouldn't say it's common to get your period when you first have sex, but there's nothing abnormal about it. All through my younger years I often felt that sex brought on my period if it was a day or two overdue, or brought it on a day or two early if it wasn't. I could be wrong, but it makes sense if your cervix is just sort of plugged a little and the exercise in your vagina shakes it loose.

Please do a lot of reading about sex, disease, birth control, and pregnancy. You can get over a broken heart, and you can cure most disease (except herpes), but pregnancy is a baby is a human for life. And birth control is never 100%.

I would most definitely not have sex again until I learned something about my own body.

I trust you protected yourself against pregnancy and disease?

Like Joy said, your "cherry" is you hymen.

Not all women bleed when they lose their virginity, that's a common misconception, especially in countries where virginity is a must at marriage. Many men in those cultures believe that a woman isn't a virgin unless she bleeds the first time. That's not true at all.

Can a doctor tell if you've had sex? Well, a doctor can tell if your hymen is still intact, but a hymen can be torn without sex, some women are born without a hymen. So, yes, a doctor can tell if your hymen is still intact, but he/she cannot say with certainty that a torn hymen is due to sexual activity.

Now, if you get pregnant, everyone will know that you had sex. No form of birth control is 100%, did you know that? So, even if you used the pill, a condom, and another form of birth control, you can still get pregnant. Any time you have sex, pregnancy is possible.

What is this, weird female stuff day or what?

What is this, weird female stuff day or what?

Tickle, on this site it seems that every day is weird everything day. ;)