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I have just been trough the same thing. I was with this girl for only 3 month. Never been so happy with someone like this before. I fell in love with her because she was Perfect in everyway. The she fall back and said I was too much (lovy lovy). Then 2 weeks ago she told me that it was over because she could take it anymore. She said I was so good to her and was the best man she never had and she just did know how to deal with it.
I know her pass experience with man was crappy and she got cheated on and had guys that did care about her.
Well I did care, I did everything for her, treated her like she was the center of the universe. And now I feel like , think about this all the time, so confuse about all this and miss her like the is no tomorrow.
After been the best lover a girl can ask for why she doesn't know how to deal with it, why if I'm the best man she never had she can try to make it work. Why, why and why.
My head feels like I'm going crazy. I can't stop thinking about this and Im so scared to find someone one day because of this... HELP

You sound really confused, and I understand, I'm not an expert just a simple girl, sometimes there is something from her past that always pulls her back into it, she said she doesn't know how to deal with you since you are the greatest person ever, if you try speaking to her and just let her know you are their for anything that she needs get to know her better, and let everything flow into place. The reason I tell you this is because I have a 5 year relationship and I have had a rough time being able to stay this long, I have experienced so much in the past and because of the past it brings me back and I don't allow my life to go forward... but yet again that's just me

Many girls do not like being treated like they are the center of a guys universe. Often that looks to a girl like he is a lost puppy dog that isn't very independent. They like a guy to be more into guy things and them being more a partner than someone that treats them like they revolve around them. Sorry I am not good at explaining it but some girls just don't like all the attention.