He broke it off after he got a new job 4 states away( he has an old female "friend" working thereI was very sad but relieved that I didn't have to wait around for him to visit. Jump to now: he's back at his old job in town. He has been in contact with me often but we have never discussed the elephant in the room.

1. He broke up with you...
2. Potential old female friend...
3. You are relieved...


Move on. You can do better in your city!

Oh... so he couldn't make it work out with her and now he wants you back... and you're wondering what to do? Come on now... have some self respect.