I have lived with my dad for nine years since I was 3. I have siblings on my moms side and now my siblings are going to live with my mom I also want to go live with her but I don't know if I should. My dad treats me well and I'm well taken care of. My mom also treats me well and id be well taken care of. I just don't know if id be able to handle such a big switch. My parents have raised me two different ways so do you think id b able to handle it I only have till the end of summer to decide so please help me. Remember I'm only a teen. I'm so lost idont know who to stay with. I really want to try it but I need some advice from people my age or parents

I have lived with my dad for nine years since I was 3

So you are 12, correct?

I would stay with dad, you can still talk to and know the other family, but your home is where you have been the last 9 years.

Next, to be honest, it is not really your choice, who have to live where the court order says you are suppose to live.

More to the story Chuck.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/lived-father-9-years-im-still-teen-want-live-mom-755888.html

So you are 12, correct?

No I am 14 I have lived with my dad for 11 years

I have lived with my dad for nine years since I was 3

Nine = 9 not 11.

We don't do to well with liars here.

I would stay with dad, you can still talk to and know the other family, but your home is where you have been the last 9 years.

Next, to be honest, it is not really your choice, who have to live where the court order says you are suppose to live.

Its actually been 11 years I goofed and put 9 I miss counted thank you

Nine = 9 not 11.

We don't do to well with liars here.

I wasn't lying I just messed up everyone makes mistakes I was born in '98

I goofed and put 9 I miss counted
In your other thread you said it was a friend who miscalculated. Now you are saying you messed up. Which is it?


Yes I know my friend was off by a lot


So you have been caught in a lie.

You posted this somewhere else because I answered it on the law page. I think you should stay with your mom for the summer to help you decide by the time its time to go back to school

... and I see you asked it twice on this board as well