I was in a relationship for 8 year with this girl had a house an children I'm not going to act like every thing was fine an dandy we had our moment I was talking to a girl behind her back cheated on her called her name but I didn't know why cause when I met her I did everything in mypower to get her but once I had her I didn't treat her how I did at first this lead to me telling this other girl our problems which lead me an this girl to being together this other while I was still at home with my girl .soon after the girl I was seeing moved away to go to college . Fell onhard times so I sent her money without telling my girl . She soon found a westen union paper with this other girls name an address on ask me what it was an I lied thinking I was protecting her . But little did I know she alredy talked to this other girl an new everything . The next day she asked me to move out . I did respectfully . Its been nearly 2yrs since an now were trying to work things out an her friend is feeding her bull about me .saying I did stuff I didn't do to cause distrust an heartake between us .an I don't want to tell leaveher friend alone cause I think that is controlling . But on my birthday the day were nomatter what we always spend time together . She calls tripping saying I posted xxx pictures of her on the internet saying I putt these xxx pic on Facebook but I really had no clue what she was talking about so I told her is this a ploy not spend time with me on my b-day she replied really lokk on this page so I look an I see nothing so I ask wher e are thses supposed xxx pic of her on the net she says I had them tooking down . So I called her a lying whore and if you didn't want to spend time with me our had other planns why didn't u say so she say there real long story short turns out the girl who is her friend that I do not get along with posted them so my girl can go with her to visit her dad in New Mexico. She find out tries to say sorry but I don't want an apolige I want my trust back . So what I'm asking how do you regain trust

Drama, drama, drama... You created all of this by being unfaithful. If it were me I wouldn't take you back. But that is me.

However, she didn't cause this and she isn't the one who cheated. So you earn no points by calling her names and the other negative behaviors you continue to do. If she doesn't see a changed you, then she won't invest the time or the trust in you again. And honestly, what does calling her a lying whore really do for you?

Grow up, act like a man, and show her a different man than what you have shown before.

The thing she has to decide is whether to trust you again. Will you cheat again will be on her mind always.

I'm going to be honest... I started reading this, or trying to actually, and I got completely annoyed by trying to figure out what you were saying since you can't use punctuation for some reason. Run-on sentences I can deal with now and then but a whole run-on paragraph that is this long, with details that I'm supposed to figure out? No. I can't put that much effort into trying to figure out what you're saying.

I'm going to be honest....I started reading this, or trying to actually, and I got completely annoyed by trying to figure out what you were saying since you can't use punctuation for some reason. Run-on sentences I can deal with now and then but a whole run-on paragraph that is this long, with details that I'm supposed to figure out? No. I can't put that much effort into trying to figure out what you're saying.

Definitely difficult!