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TMB26
Jun 24, 2013, 09:24 PM
Well long story short, my friend calls me Friday night, saying he's mad I'm talking crap and wants to fight. But even though I didn't say anything, I got mad and accepted. So today we got into another argument and he brought up the fight, but then I personally texted him and were "cool" now. But for some reason I feel empty or almost like something is missing. I want to also mention this isn't the first time it's happened, and I've know this friend since 4th grade (I'm going into 10th). Another thing I would like to mention is that whenever this would happen with another friend I wouldn't get as emotional, as in angry or sad, mad and all the other feelings you get when in a situation like this. I've come to the conclusion that I should cut ties with this kid but I'm finding it hard to do, maybe because this all happened in the course of like 4 days. I also am an overthinker as you may tell from earlier questions I've posted haha. But in the end, I just don't know what to do, I feel I've given this friend to many chances and I want to cut ties, but then when I am about to put my foot down... I stop and think again. Can anyone tell me what I'm feeling? Or give me some clarity onto why I might feel the way I do?

Homegirl 50
Jun 25, 2013, 08:08 AM
What is it you two are fighting about?
Take a long break from each other.

TMB26
Jun 25, 2013, 09:10 AM
What is it you two are fighting about?
Take a long break from each other.

He called me up randomly and said I was talking crap and all that, then said he wanted to fight. Since this happened once before I lost my cool and flipped out on him and said I accept. Then we got into another argument, I just blocked him on Facebook because I was so frustrated. We then texted and sorted it out, and now we're cool, but like I said I think I just want to cut him off for a while or maybe even completely. So I think taking a long break will be good for now. Thanks!

Homegirl 50
Jun 25, 2013, 10:48 AM
Good idea