tsdolphin
Jun 20, 2013, 08:23 AM
Please help. Not sure if I'm in a verbal abusive relationship or just afraid of love.
This is my problem with my boyfriend. We have dated for a year. Things were really great at first, my kids liked him, he liked my girls, at least I thought so. Well he also has kids. Mine always seem to do everything wrong. He brings up my past constantly. I don't bring up his past.
We do not live together, but he wants me to move in. But I'm stalling. I've seen him get angry and say harsh words. He just recently started yelling at me. He is very mean over text and he criticizes everything I say. He has chased all my male friends away, and he has threatened two of my daughters, and my ex husband, my kids dad.
I was in a abusive marriage for many years, but finally got out. Its been me and my girls for many years, but when my boyfriend and I met I really thought this was it, something good, but not so sure anymore.
I need to know if he's abusive an controlling?
This is my problem with my boyfriend. We have dated for a year. Things were really great at first, my kids liked him, he liked my girls, at least I thought so. Well he also has kids. Mine always seem to do everything wrong. He brings up my past constantly. I don't bring up his past.
We do not live together, but he wants me to move in. But I'm stalling. I've seen him get angry and say harsh words. He just recently started yelling at me. He is very mean over text and he criticizes everything I say. He has chased all my male friends away, and he has threatened two of my daughters, and my ex husband, my kids dad.
I was in a abusive marriage for many years, but finally got out. Its been me and my girls for many years, but when my boyfriend and I met I really thought this was it, something good, but not so sure anymore.
I need to know if he's abusive an controlling?