So after dating each other for 16 months, and some complications along the way ie: Blended family things, separate living quarters etc.
I'm plum out of reasons to keep going on with the relationship as we seem to 'never get alone time' or even just 'time' Monday to Saturday, between both of us, our kids are taking us in different directions and we've lost 'US' in the process.

I need to know ' What time, percentage, or fragment of time' is enough or not enough in a GF&BF relationship? Should I even be thinking this way? I'm so confused, and YES I love him to bits, but this year has been taxing. I need more of 'us' and neither of us are capable of finding 'more US time'?

What are your thoughts?

What's our yard st?

What does HE say?
The variety among couples runs the gamut. Some with careers even go thousands of miles from each other and rarely get together, and are very happy. Some live together 24/7 and resent 2 hours out with other people.
You mention something about kids - you each have your own?
You aren't really telling us anything about YOU.
There's no pat answer. It's what you are both comfortable with. It's what you work out with each other.