My husband died & one of his friends used to care about me.Shortly, after that he proposed but I refused. However, he didn't lose hope & kept caring about me in a way I didn't see before. I want to know whether this care is due to love or what? This care was like reading my poetry, the way I smile, my perfume, the way I smell, the way my teeth look like, great admiration with my skin color & how I look like including my neck, my handwriting, my quietness, my shyness, he keeps any paper I write on anything, he calls me many times a day & keeps informing me about his places of work though I don't ask to, he even calls during work, even during making calculations just to hear my voice which was weird to me & he sometimes asks about other men who proposed as well. He was married before twice but got divorced.When he told me that, he was in great pain & thought that knowing this fact will make me leave him. I've 3 girls from my husband. I've always felt that he feared that I might leave if we get married. He always hesitates.When I finally accepted his proposal, he withdrew his request. Then, he re-proposed.Then he withdrew it again out of fear of my girls' presence & asked to just be friends.Then he said he wasn't sure about what he wanted exactly.Then he totally disappeared from my life. Does he love me? How can I get him back to my life & make re-propose?

No one can really tell if that man loves you only he knows men are not emotional creatures so they tend to be difficult to understand.. I think you should leave this man alone and ensure you look your very best at all times so whenever he sees you again he will be surprised because the best way to get a mans attention is by giving him a challenge... dont call him let him call you, if he wants to be with you nothing can stop him... good luck ^_^

I would not want someone so wishy-washy in my life.