I've been with my boyfriend for a year (tomorrow) and he was a virgin when we met. We first had sex 3 days into our relationship (fast I know) and we do it a lot. I have had tears on my vagina before, like towards the back.. And I have had bumps on my bottom.. But two days ago I became aware that I had a huge cut from the top of my left vagina lip (inside) all the way down. Before noticing this I had a bump on my vagina and I thought it was a bee sting because it hurt, so my boyfriend tried to pop it because he was sure it was an ant bite. He said puss came out an he wiped it off (it stung) now I have 3 bumps in all and a long scratch looking rip in the side on the top and near the bottom.. This morning I became swear of another bump on the inside of my vagina near the top near where one of the rips on my vagina are. I told my mom I got stung by a bee but I'm starting to think its herpes.. I don't know what to do! I have looked all over the Internet and I match description.. Please help me!

He had herpes... you had sex... odds are you now have herpes... and unless there is a medical breakthrough... you will have it for the rest of your life.

You need to make an appointment with your doctor... and get tested.. there are medications that will reduce the amount and duraction of breakouts... but there is no cure for herpes at this time.

And it does sound like you might be suffering from a breakout...

Incidentally... if you didn't have it before you met him... then he either wasn't a virgin or faithful... because you don't get herpes in the mail.