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tanzzz9
Jun 14, 2013, 03:25 PM
I was assaulted and my roommate helped me through it. She was a ***** because she did tell everyone about the incident but I will never forget how she pulled me through it. Then I moved out to another room because I couldn't stand living in the same place I was assaulted.

I joined a sorority and for some reason she became distant from me. Despite my many efforts she just pulled away because I was meeting new people. She does this thing when she hates someone she just blocks them from her photos and info on fb and she did that to me. I tried talking to her about it but she keeps saying everything all right.

Do I fight longer for this friendship or is it useless? I don't have many friends so I sort of want her back for that reason. And should I block her from my pics too, then? Give her a taste of her own medicine?

tanzzz9
Jun 14, 2013, 03:35 PM
Please answer I'm depressed

J_9
Jun 14, 2013, 03:36 PM
Please be patient. Your question was only posted 10 minutes ago. We are all volunteer our time here.

Also, please ask your question only once. All duplicate posts will be deleted.

Alty
Jun 14, 2013, 03:37 PM
Please don't start multiple threads about the same topic. It may take a while for someone to answer your question. We all volunteer here. There's no need to post your question more than once, and please keep all future posts about this topic on this thread, don't start a new one if it's about the same situation. Thanks

Now to answer your question. It doesn't sound like this friend wants a friendship with you. You've tried to contact her, and she's rebuffed you. You can try one final time, maybe send her a letter explaining things, and telling her how much she means to you. If she doesn't contact you after that, it's time to move on.

talaniman
Jun 14, 2013, 03:59 PM
Why don't you just leave her alone and understand she is protecting herself. No need for revenge. You seem to be so overwhelmed with emotions that doing nothing but healing and getting emotionally, and spiritually healthy should be your priority, and that will take time, so relax and heal, and don't give into any impulsive actions that could come back and bite you in the a$$.

tanzzz9
Jun 14, 2013, 04:05 PM
How do I heal and get emotionally, and spiritually healthy?

Alty
Jun 14, 2013, 04:33 PM
How do i heal and get emotionally, and spiritually healthy?

Therapy.

talaniman
Jun 14, 2013, 04:48 PM
Oops! You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Alty again

Start with your family physician, and he can guide you to the right help. Tell him everything, as you have done with us here on this site. You do need it.