emmahall
Jun 13, 2013, 08:42 AM
I was in a very full on but lovely relationship for just over 3 months with this guy. He is 34 so ten years my senior. It started perfect. He was charming, sweet and very caring towards me. He then went away for a week due to a family problem. Initially he was very responsive. He would call and send pictures all the time, giving me no reason to suspect or feel insecure.
However after about 4 days of him initially being there, he stopped calling/messaging as much though he was still in contact, he didn't seem himself. I then asked him if everything was OK with him and his family and he wasn't very responsive I then asked why I was getting the silent treatment (I had called him 3 times prior to this but he didn't answer and I didn't get a call back), perhaps he felt I had not been there for him so I asked him if this was the case. I apologized, though I was unsure as to what I was apologizing for. He said he was sorry and that he had experienced problems and he would call me later that day.
I got nothing and so the next day I sent him a message to say I was hurt by the way he had acted and that I didn't need an explanation anymore and that I was done with it. To this he responded, thanks for being patient with me. I was baffled so asked what he meant, to which he responded, thanks a lot. I have since asked him why he is thanking me but I have received no reply. It has now been four days and I am still hurt and confused as to what happened! I know I need to give myself closure but I feel I still need to tell me.
What should I do? Contact him again?
However after about 4 days of him initially being there, he stopped calling/messaging as much though he was still in contact, he didn't seem himself. I then asked him if everything was OK with him and his family and he wasn't very responsive I then asked why I was getting the silent treatment (I had called him 3 times prior to this but he didn't answer and I didn't get a call back), perhaps he felt I had not been there for him so I asked him if this was the case. I apologized, though I was unsure as to what I was apologizing for. He said he was sorry and that he had experienced problems and he would call me later that day.
I got nothing and so the next day I sent him a message to say I was hurt by the way he had acted and that I didn't need an explanation anymore and that I was done with it. To this he responded, thanks for being patient with me. I was baffled so asked what he meant, to which he responded, thanks a lot. I have since asked him why he is thanking me but I have received no reply. It has now been four days and I am still hurt and confused as to what happened! I know I need to give myself closure but I feel I still need to tell me.
What should I do? Contact him again?