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kiara-morales
Jun 10, 2013, 05:00 PM
So the boy that was my best friend is just a friend now but I don't want it to stay like that I really like him. Our last day of school is the 13th should I just risk it all that day for once in my life, and tell him that I like him as more than a friend. But I'm not expecting anything at all, I just want to inform him. Should I tell him?

Alty
Jun 10, 2013, 05:05 PM
Sure, tell him. The worst that can happen is that he tells you he doesn't feel the same way. The best that can happen is that he feels the same way about you.

How old are you? Do you have your parents permission to date? Does he?

Homegirl 50
Jun 10, 2013, 05:07 PM
What happened that he is no longer your best friend and how old are you? You can tell him if you want to. If you're not expecting anything what is the point?

niallover101
Jun 10, 2013, 06:24 PM
Girl. I had the same problem. I was BESTFRIENDS with this guy, I was constantly with him, I started liking him.
Just ask him
"soo who do you like" and if he tells you and asks who you like, say "well.. its embarrassing, promise you wont make fun of me" then just tell him, me and my best friend started talking. But we both decided it was too much for us to handle.

kiara-morales
Jun 11, 2013, 05:13 PM
girl. I had the same problem. I was BESTFRIENDS with this guy, I was constantly with him, I started liking him.
just ask him
"soo who do you like" and if he tells you and asks who you like, say "well.. its embarrassing, promise you wont make fun of me" then just tell him, me nd my bestfriend started talking. but we both decided it was to much for us to handle.

Thanks... we were bestfriends and I've been scared to tell him that I like him because he knew this girl liked him, before that, they were friends, after he found out, he stopped talking to her all at once and became strangers, that's the only reason why I'm scared


What happened that he is no longer your best friend and how old are you? You can tell him if you want to. If you're not expecting anything what is the point?

The point of not expecting nothing, is not putting pressure on him to try to be nice to me, I want him to tell me what he honesttly feels without that pressure.

Homegirl 50
Jun 11, 2013, 06:09 PM
How old are the both of you?

kiara-morales
Jun 15, 2013, 03:18 PM
15... why?

JudyKayTee
Jun 15, 2013, 03:25 PM
Seems like I've heard this all before - oh, wait - I have.

Good memory for names!

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/personal-help-742571.html

Homegirl 50
Jun 15, 2013, 03:37 PM
OK so is this the guy in a gang or someone else? Did you get help with your mental issues? I think you need to leave the guys alone and get help for yourself.

talaniman
Jun 15, 2013, 06:26 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/guy-best-friend-747248.html

Same guy?

Homegirl 50
Jun 15, 2013, 06:48 PM
You have post all over the place. Your age shows. You seem to be constantly chasing this guy, is this is the same one. It's time to let go. As long as this has been going on I think he already has a clue about you.

kiara-morales
Jun 21, 2013, 07:23 PM
I know, I'm changing, I don't want to be the same little stupid girl everyone saw me as, I'm changing, both phsically and mentally and emotionally. Now I know you can't always have what you want, and I don't want to be the one that everyone takes advantage of just because she's too nice, I'm letting go of everything that has been keeping me back from being the best me I can be

JudyKayTee
Jun 22, 2013, 07:35 AM
Those are words - reassuring words, of course, but "just words." Good you want to change. What exactly are you doing to implement the changes?

kiara-morales
Jun 22, 2013, 08:45 PM
Those are words - reassuring words, of course, but "just words." Good you want to change. What exactly are you doing to implement the changes?

I'm not going to let everybody step over me, I not going to fall for the wrong guy, just because I feellike I love him, I don't want to be the same, I want to be unrecognizable, yet still the same with my friends, I want guys to look at me and know they will have to try hard, be honest, and treat me right to get me, and I want everybody to see me and know that through everything, I will still always have my head up, no ifs or buts