Well Just let me say when your grandchildren is being abuse and not take care of and you know this. When they come and see you and they are hungry and they eat until they make theirselve sick , and the baby has diaper rash from not being clean, and they smell like they haven't had a bath in a week,and the mother sleeps with everyone she can think of , to me the children shouldn't be there, but what does the courts do : give the children to the wrong parent(mother). What kind of proof is there to show when the parent that loves his children can't protect them for her. This is why bad things happens to our children because the court system choices the wrong parent. Just because she the mother doesn't mean she is doing the right thing. I know this because my son is going through this now , and he know his children is being treated badly. What advice do you have for me.

Ask him everyday what is wrong with him and try to make his order, if it was with bullies then go to talk with the principal or the form tutor or if it was with school tel him that his future is when he goes to school. If it maybe with him not being hungry tell him if he ate his healthy food you may take him to a fast food place at night(tip: only once a week.) or you may give him a chocolate or something he likes to eat.
I wish this helped you.

Ask him everyday what is wrong with him and try to make his order, if it was with bullies then go to talk with the principal or the form tutor or if it was with school tel him that his future is when he goes to school. If it maybe with him not being hungry tell him if he ate his healthy food you may take him to a fast food place at night(tip: only once a week.) or you may give him a chocolate or something he likes to eat.
I wish this helped you.

This is not the kind of help she is asking about. Her son needs legal assistance.

Your post did not make much sense.

You photograph, show child to medical professionals and get written proof that can be used in courts.

** her sleeping with everyone, does not make any differece, that is not care of the children.