My boyfriend of 2 years still hardly wants to spend time with me and my kids. He has a son also 13. I have a 5 year old boy and 15 year old daughter. I love him but every other weekend when kids are around he does not ever plan anything with me and my kids. We are inseparable the alternate weekends. What to do? It's like we have two separate lives. I hate it. I would love to at least plan to spend sometime together so that our kids get to know each other.. Some family time.. What to do? He says he enjoys time alone with his son and apparently all he wants to do is play basketball... Help?