So my ex we been on and off for going on 5 years and he asked me to marry him twice but, than every time that happens I end up finding out things. It's either some girl is saying things about him, sexually or writing about him saying that's her man. Every time I ask him who are those girls he says I never talk to them, I never seen them, or I haven't did anything with them. But in my mind is like "why would they say things about you than" and I always ask about it and he gets mad and goes off on me like I'm in the wrong.

Sounds like he wants someone to be there that will just be around. He may love you and really want to marry you but to me it sounds like he just wants someone around. Why would other women say things over and over if it were not true? And for him to get defensive too... sounds a little fishy to me.

When we know someone we know their patterns of behaviors.There is something there that concerns you and it sounds like it has been there for a while. When you are considering a huge commitment like marriage, don't settle for something less than you deserve.