I am going through a very recent breakup and am having an extremely difficult time dealing with it. This man is the love of my life and we were always extremely happy. One day we are making plans for the future and the next he says he needs to find himself. He said he woke up in the middle of the night and wondered what his whole life was about, like he felt like he had lost himself. I am halfway across the country temporarily for a few more weeks and feel so helpless. He says he loves me with all his heart but its not fair to me until he is happy with himself again. I would do anything for him and I can't just give up on him...