Alaurabail990
May 21, 2013, 07:56 PM
Okay, so this is a tough/confusing situation.
My husband and I have only been married for about a year. Collectively we have been together for only three years. Two months after we began dating, we found out I was pregnant. We have a perfect, beautiful daughter. But everything happened VERY fast.
He has a friend who I have not been able to stop thinking about since we were first introduced. I feel drawn to him, I think he is flawless, and we have so many things in common. I have no idea if his friend feels anything for me, but I can't help but wonder because of our connection. There is something about him that is familiar and comforting to me, I can't explain it :/
I do love my husband, and I care about his well being very much. He is an amazing father, but not the greatest husband. I am far from perfect too. I have not felt attracted to him sexually since before our daughter was born. I feel guilty for resenting the way he acts sometimes. He talks down to me on an almost daily basis, I have just grown used to it sadly. He has gotten physical with me multiple times throughout our relationship.
Should I attempt discussing my feelings with my husband? Or continue to admire from afar? This situation is emotionally exhausting. I don't want to break apart our family, that is my priority. I want our daughter to see us both happy. I just don't know what to do :/
Any help would be appreciated!
My husband and I have only been married for about a year. Collectively we have been together for only three years. Two months after we began dating, we found out I was pregnant. We have a perfect, beautiful daughter. But everything happened VERY fast.
He has a friend who I have not been able to stop thinking about since we were first introduced. I feel drawn to him, I think he is flawless, and we have so many things in common. I have no idea if his friend feels anything for me, but I can't help but wonder because of our connection. There is something about him that is familiar and comforting to me, I can't explain it :/
I do love my husband, and I care about his well being very much. He is an amazing father, but not the greatest husband. I am far from perfect too. I have not felt attracted to him sexually since before our daughter was born. I feel guilty for resenting the way he acts sometimes. He talks down to me on an almost daily basis, I have just grown used to it sadly. He has gotten physical with me multiple times throughout our relationship.
Should I attempt discussing my feelings with my husband? Or continue to admire from afar? This situation is emotionally exhausting. I don't want to break apart our family, that is my priority. I want our daughter to see us both happy. I just don't know what to do :/
Any help would be appreciated!