I am 17 and I have been have sex for year now with the same guy. For a couple months now the front of my vagina started hurting. I looked it up and it said I had vaginsmus. I can't tell my parents because they wanted me to wait but is there a way I can get rid of it myself?

First self diagnosis is dangerous. You might think that's what it is, but only a doctor can accurately diagnose.

Second, at 17, you go to your OB/Gyn on your own and not have have your parents told why. They will know you went unless you pay for it yourself.

First self diagnosis is dangerous. You might think that's what it is, but only a doctor can accurately diagnose.

Second, at 17, you go to your OB/Gyn on your own and not have have your parents told why. They will know you went unless you pay for it yourself.
I can't tell my parents because they are really strict. I was hoping there might be something else. I wasn't g

Self/internet diagnosis is VERY dangerous. Please seek medical attention.

I can't tell my parents because they are really strict. I was hoping there might be something else. I wasn't g

I am not going to get it checked out. I was just going to leave it go.

Self/internet diagnosis is VERY dangerous. Please seek medical attention.

If I don't get it checked out what will happpen?

I am not going to get it checked out. I was just going to leave it go.
It may be something serious that will affect your future sex life and even having children. Get it checked out!

I can't tell my parents because they are really strict. I was hoping there might be something else. I wasn't g

Again, you don't have to tell your parents anything, other than you want to see your doctor. Or go to a clinic and pay for it yourself. But you DO need to get it checked or you could be endangering your life, your ability to have children or your future sex life.

Again, you don't have to tell your parents anything, other than you want to see your doctor. Or go to a clinic and pay for it yourself..
I don't know of any clinics around where I live. And I don't have the money to go.

Why do you have to tell your parents about your sexual activity? What you say to the doctor will be confidential between you and him/her.

I don't know of any clinics around where I live. And I don't have the money to go. I am in tears right now. You guys are scaring me with the truth and specially since I don't have the money to go do that.

I don't know of any clinics around where I live. And I don't have the money to go.

Where are you? Maybe we can find one. What about your boyfriend? He has a part in this. But the bottom line is you can't ignore this and NEED to get it treated.

Why do you have to tell your parents about your sexual activity? What you say to the doctor will be confidential between you and him/her.
I am scared to go to my doctor because they are really close with my family

Where are you? maybe we can find one. What about your boyfriend? he has a part in this. But the bottom line is you can't ignore this and NEED to get it treated.
I love in kutztown pa. My boyfriend knows about it but he didn't think it was serious.

What makes you think you have this?

What makes you think you have this?
Well I looked it up on Google. And my boyfriend sleeps over every other weekend and we have sex like twice a day but the second time it starts to burn really bad and when he pulls out I start to cry because it hurts. I he goes to put back I have to say no because it hurts to put it in.

I love in kutztown pa. My boyfriend knows about it but he didn't think it was serious.

You can look up your symptoms on Google, but you can't look up clinics? Here's a Bing search that shows there are many clinics in your area.

clinics kutztown PA - Bing (http://www.bing.com/search?q=clinics+kutztown+PA&form=IE10TR&src=IE10TR&pc=MASMJS)

Your parents do not have to know you are sexually active. All women have problems at various times with their "parts"(and so do men) without being sexually active. You can get a yeast infection without being sexually active. You DO need to see a doctor. Is there a Planned Parenthood near you? That could be the place for you to be checked because they are anonymous. Please, get it checked out.

You can look up your symptoms on google, but you can't look up clinics? Here's a Bing search that shows there are many clinics in your area.

clinics kutztown PA - Bing (http://www.bing.com/search?q=clinics+kutztown+PA&form=IE10TR&src=IE10TR&pc=MASMJS)
I know but I don't even think about going to a clinic or anything. For all I know I am just exaggerating and this is nothing. Because I also seen it might be because it was not wet enough. We did it different then usual so that might be way

Your parents do not have to know you are sexually active. All women have problems at various times with their "parts"(and so do men) without being sexually active. You can get a yeast infection without being sexually active. You DO need to see a doctor. Is there a Planned Parenthood near you? That could be the place for you to be checked because they are anonymous. Please, get it checked out. I know I do but the thing is I don't drive an neither does my boyfriend

I know but I don't even think about going to a clinic or anything. For all I know I am just exaggerating and this is nothing. Because I also seen it might be because it was not wet enough. We did it different then usual so that might be way
How many times have you cried when he tried to enter you a second time?

I know but I don't even think about going to a clinic or anything. For all I know I am just exaggerating and this is nothing. Because I also seen it might be because it was not wet enough. We did it different then usual so that might be way does it sound like I have it or

I know I do but the thing is I don't drive an neither does my boyfriend
Then tell your mom you have an infection of some sort and want it checked out.

does it sound like I have it or

It sounds like nobody is going to be able to diagnose this for you online since we haven't examined you. It also sounds like you have gotten some good advice here but can't or won't follow it. What else can possibly be said at this point?

How many times have you cried when he tried to enter you a second time?
Only a couple I usually just push him away. But the other day I went pee after and it burned as well. So maybe it isn't what I think it is

Only a couple I usually just push him away. But the other day I went pee after and it burned as well. So maybe it isn't what I think it is
I'm thinking it's something else, not vaginismus. Does he use a condom?

Then tell your mom you have an infection of some sort and want it checked out.
That's probably what I am going to have to do. How much does it usually cost

Only a couple I usually just push him away. But the other day I went pee after and it burned as well. So maybe it isn't what I think it is

What does it take to get through to you? What you are experiencing is not normal and you NEED to have it checked out before you do further damage to yourself.

I'm thinking it's something else, not vaginismus. Does he use a condom?
No:( that's the thing I hate. I am on birth control! And he has never cummed inside me

No:( that's the thing I hate. I am on birth control! And he has never cummed inside me
How did/do you get birth control if you have no money and no transportation?

What does it take to get through to you? What you are experiencing is not normal and you NEED to have it checked out before you do further damage to yourself.
Yes but I also exaggerate! A lot. So what I am saying this might not be what I am saying it is. I looked it up on Google and if anything I will talk to my Mother about taking me because my vagina has been bothering me

How did/do you get birth control if you have no money and no transportation?
My parents put me on it to regulate my period.

So your parents are strict... you're scared to get checked out... have no way of getting there... somehow you're on birth control pills... ok.

Yes but I also exaggerate! A lot. So what I am saying this might not be what I am saying it is. I looked it up on google and if anything I will talk to my Mother about taking me because my vagina has been bothering me
Crying doesn't sound very exaggerated. (sarcasm)

And we want a report please that you went to a doctor and had this checked -- and tell us what it is.

So your parents are strict...you're scared to get checked out.......have no way of getting there....somehow you're on birth control pills....ok.
Only reason for birth control pills is regulate my period. An my parents are strict with the no sex rule! And they drive me places but barely only if it is important

Crying doesn't sound very exaggerated. (sarcasm)

And we want a report please that you went to a doctor and had this checked -- and tell us what it is.
If I remember to get back I will. I will talk to my boyfriend tomorrow and then text my mother because I don't live with her

Only reason for birth control pills is regulate my period. An my parents are strict with the no sex rule! And they drive me places but barely only if it is important
How do you manage your get-togethers with your boyfriend?

Only reason for birth control pills is regulate my period. An my parents are strict with the no sex rule! And they drive me places but barely only if it is important

And your parents allow this?


Well I looked it up on google. And my boyfriend sleeps over every other weekend and we have sex like twice a day but the second time it starts to burn really bad and when he pulls out I start to cry because it hurts. I he goes to put back I have to say no because it hurts to put it in.

How do you manage your get-togethers with your boyfriend?

Every other weekend he spends the weekend at my moms house with me. We sleep in the same bed and that's when it happens. My mom really has no clue we have had sex and I know that for a fact

This just keeps getting crazier...

And your parents allow this?

My step dad an mom don't know it happens

If your parents are strict with no sex. How are you going to tell them when you find out you are pregnant?

If your parents are strict with no sex. How are you going to tell them when you find out you are pregnant?
Well I know I am not pregnant! In the future past 19 they will be fine

My step dad an mom don't know it happens

They're strict... don't know you've had sex... you're on birth control pills... your boyfriend sleeps over every other weekend... in the same bed... and they have no clue what is going on... I just am having an incredibly difficult time believing this.

Yes, well I got pregnant using the pill AND the condom. Not once, but twice. So how do you know you won't get pregnant?

I'm not believing this either.

They're strict...don't know you've had sex...you're on birth control pills....your boyfriend sleeps over every other weekend...in the same bed....and they have no clue what is going on....I just am having an incredibly difficult time believing this.
Ok I live with my real dad and my step mom and they are te strict ones with no sex and they put me on birth control so I can get my period. Every other weekend I go to my moms house where my boyfriend comes over and stays and my mom trust me that I am not doing anything

Ok I live with my real dad and my step mom and they are te strict ones with no sex and they put me on birth control so I can get my period. Every other weekend I go to my moms house where my boyfriend comes over and stays and my mom trust me that I am not doing anything

Right...

So have the clueless mother take you to the doctor.

Yes, well I got pregnant using the pill AND the condom. Not once, but twice. So how do you know you won't get pregnant?

I'm not believing this either.
Yea I come on these websites and lie. NOT! Like seriously I know my Body and I know for a fact I am not pregnant

So, you are stabbing your mother in the back? Just wait until you have to tell her you are pregnant. Yes, it will happen.

Right...

So have the clueless mother take you to the doctor.
Ok I going to do what I want to do. Because you guys are trying to help but your also being rude about it. So wonder girl if you want to email me >removed< your being sweet and helping me. Goodnight an thanks

We all figured you are going to do what you want to do because you think you are ten feet tall and bulletproof.

We will wait for you to come back and ask us how to tell your parents you are pregnant.

We all figured you are going to do what you want to do because you think you are ten feet tall and bulletproof.

We will wait for you to come back and ask us how to tell your parents you are pregnant.
Ik for a fact I am not pregnant I took a test! I had my friend give me one at school and did it there so thank you.

Ok I going to do what I want to do. Because u guys are tryin to help but ur also being rude about it. So wonder girl if u want to email me >removed< ur being sweet and helping me. Goodnight an thanks

Your story just kept getting crazier as you went along... Who's being rude? We're trying to make sense out of it.

And really... you say you have no way to go to the doctor because of strict parents yet you have a mother who lets a boy sleep in the same bed as you... so therefore I concluded that she must be clueless... so she could be the one to take you to the doctor since she obviously doesn't mind that you're having sex. Now that I pointed that out, you have nothing to say.

Your story just kept getting crazier as you went along...Who's being rude? We're trying to make sense out of it.

And really...you say you have no way to go to the doctor because of strict parents yet you have a mother who lets a boy sleep in the same bed as you....so therefore I concluded that she must be clueless....so she could be the one to take you to the doctor since she obviously doesn't mind that you're having sex. Now that I pointed that out, you have nothing to say.
She does mind me having sex. I am just being a terrible daughter and going behind her back and doing it.

Ik for a fact I am not pregnant I took a test! I had my friend give me one at school and did it there so thank you. If you didn't take it using first morning urine it's not accurate.

We all figured you are going to do what you want to do because you think you are ten feet tall and bulletproof.

We will wait for you to come back and ask us how to tell your parents you are pregnant.
Also I have been getting my period every month so I know for a fact I am not

I am just being a terrible daughter and going behind her back and doing it. Actually, yes, you are being a terrible daughter. What will the punishment be when they find out? They will you know.

Well, I'm done here.

If this question is real, and all these outlandish situations are somehow real and actually taking place... I do hope you find some way to get to the doctor because that is what you really need. Other than that, I have nothing else to add.

Actually, yes, you are being a terrible daughter. What will the punishment be when they find out? They will you know.
Lie and say we just started but I think I am going to tell my mother I am ready to do.

I'm done here too.

J OUT! ------------->

Well, I'm done here.

If this question is real, and all these outlandish situations are somehow real and actually taking place....I do hope you find some way to get to the doctor because that is what you really need. Other than that, I have nothing else to add.

Thank you and I will do my best to get to one

I'm done here too.

J OUT! ------------->

Yea because now you know for a fact I am not pregnant