thatadi
May 21, 2013, 03:24 PM
We broke up because I felt strangled and that I wanted to build myself.
Can a person build himself while he is in a relationship, or if I feel I'm not a whole person I need to be alone in order to build myself up? Can I just change a few things about the relationship - for example not give up trips because I'm worried it will harm my relationship (which I did) not give up things that are important to me just because they may harm the relationship? Will that be enough for me to not feel strangled?
I love him very very much.
Can a person build himself while he is in a relationship, or if I feel I'm not a whole person I need to be alone in order to build myself up? Can I just change a few things about the relationship - for example not give up trips because I'm worried it will harm my relationship (which I did) not give up things that are important to me just because they may harm the relationship? Will that be enough for me to not feel strangled?
I love him very very much.