Hello all :) I have a question. I am educated on safe sex, but things happen.

The boyfriend came home from deployment so we had unprotected sex Tues the 13th into Wed the 14th. I an on tri-previum because pills but missed for the week before due to a crazy week of my stepdad being in a bad car accident. I have been on because for years but tri-previum for only 2 months as I switched.

He did not finish in me, he finished on me and pulled out about two minutes before he finished.

My friends are saying things and I'm getting paranoid. He has two kids from a previous relationship and he does not want any right now.

I went to check my cervix before and there was some red blood. What is that? Oh also, the first day of my last period was May 3.

Am I okay? I want children but not right now.

Thank you:)

No condom? "Pulling out" is the worst kind of birth control.

No, you're not okay.

I agree. You are not okay. I got pregnant not once, but twice, using the pill AND the condom properly. The withdrawal method is not a form of birth control.

I am well aware that it is not a proper method of birth control.. nor did I say it was.


He has been defending our country for the past six months and just got home and we got caught up in the moment. I know the mistake I made. I meant am I okay as in what was the red blood when I checked my cervix.


Thanks

I meant am I okay as in what was the red blood when I checked my cervix.
I'm not sure how a woman can see her cervix. In any event, was the sex rough or did he "pound" you?

You can check with your fingers to see how it feels. Like if its up high that's a sign of ovulation, etc... my friend is a family planner and told me to check. There was a bit of blood on my finger... like a pin size drop.


My boyfriend isn't really rough but I hadn't had sex in 6 months since he was deployed.. dunno if that makes a difference or not. Id imagine if he was rough I wouldve bled already? We had sex 7 days ago