Me and my girlfriend is almost 6months now before she has her boyfriend with her for 5 years and when the time that he is neglecting her I showed up we got in a relationship even though she's still in one...

Afterwards they broke up and she's still with me we got in a fight that's normal but there is more happy momenta than fighting one day she went out to see old friends w/o me knowing also her ex was there.. Her ex by the way was her first in everything but it doesn't bother me at all and then of course I got mad for she did not told me that she went out with friends and ex and it started that day when her friend ask if they are still together her ex just smiled and by then she became confused and wanted to be single as she told me

I don't know what to do because first of I really love her and I gave her everything that she needed my family likes her so much so I don't know what to do she's being honeSt enough to tell me that even though I'm with her sometimes she can still think of her ex and I'm not enough she even told me that it is different to be on a 5 year relationship and she was tired of all the relationship stuffs and that's why she wanted to be single

Can anyone help me I don't know what to do because I don't want to loose her but you also don't want to make myself look dumb

Wake up, it's a 5 year relationship, and she didn't have time to heal, she jumped into a new relationship, you may be a rebound. Think about it.

But there are relationships that last which started as a rebound. The most important value you and your girlfriend should have is trust. Can you trust her? Do you feel she is trustworthy? If not, then you have a problem.

You should talk to her, comfort her, I know its sucks but that's what she needs, unless you don't want to be a rebound and just ditch her and find someone or wait for someone who is willing to love you without anyone else in the way.

Or you can give her time to think about it, of you really love her you'll understand and wait. Its hard, but its going to be harder for you if you just continue without a clear mind for her.