Hey guys

Well some of you know my story.. so I work with a girl.. and she is a roommate in my flat.. anyway when I meet her she had a boyfriend.. she jumped on me a week.. after meeting me.. I held back as much as I could. But well I love effection.. so anyway we kissed huged did everything even went out on a few dates... but no sex though I didn't want that even though she wanted to.. I was like ahh I don't know what's going on.. with your boyfriend.. I know for me to even kiss her was bad enough on my part ;z.. But anyway..

Then that lasted for like 8 months.. then she gets back with him. When she finds out she can't go anywhere with me.. and I was cool with it.. as we work together and live together in the flat.. she said OK well I still like you and I want to be friends.. well OK ill be nice.. but I was thinking in my head I can't be friends with this person because well its weird...


Anyway a few weeks have gone on.. and she is still trying to be nice to me.. and I'm being really nice to her but nothing special. As I know she is taken.. I always want to stay away just in case we both get to close and things start up again... anyway.. I'm nothing like I was to her.. for good reason.. anyway I'm really happy with how things are going.. I do feel guilty though I wish I could be more of a mate with her.. but I can't and I know I'm doing the right thing in my head.. because at the end of the day.. its either hurt myself and make her feel cool with 2 dudes with her.. or look after myself...

Anyway just wondering what your guys thoughts are on this

Actually I don't look at it as hurting you at all. She wanted to use you for the convience and you stood your ground and let her know you were better then that. Just because she's a cheater doesn't mean you have to get sucked into that world and I think you did the right thing by staying out of it.

Thank you chuff.. I always respect your answers :)

Be polite, but keep her at a distance.