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01anubhav01
May 7, 2013, 12:47 PM
I just got breakup with my girl friend a days ago . We had a relationship of 3 years . I am having no value in my family . The worst thing is that I'm failed in class 12th this year . I am having no path to go

odinn7
May 7, 2013, 12:50 PM
You're wrong buddy. You do have a path to go. You're young, right? Do you know how much things can change in just a year? You need to give it time and see what comes down the road for you. You think things are bad but you haven't even given yourself enough time to live and become an adult.

A break up right now is hard, I know... trust me, it's hard all the time any time it happens. I have had it happen many times and then you feel like you have nothing. But if you wait it out, someone else will come along and you will be better off and then you will realize this girl that has you so upset now really wasn't worth your time.

Wondergirl
May 7, 2013, 12:50 PM
Can you repeat the failed classes?

catlady23
May 7, 2013, 12:51 PM
Although suicide seems to be the only path at this moment. I strongly suggest you contemplate the thought for at least 4 days... things change. Hope comes in to existence, eventually. You still have a God who loves you unconditionally..

"No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Romans 8:37-39

R31211
May 7, 2013, 12:51 PM
Don't kill yourself. It's not worth it. With or without her you'll be fine, and I can promise you that. I know things may not be like you wanted them to be, but keep your head up and be glad you're still alive to your loving parents and friends.

Oliver2011
May 7, 2013, 12:51 PM
"I am having no path to go" - So then make a new path for yourself.

Learn something from all of the things you listed and make it better. Only you can do that.

If you are going to allow a breakup to ruin your life then maybe you should stay single forever. Think about it - I don't let anyone control how I feel about me. And it works.

01anubhav01
May 7, 2013, 01:09 PM
I did many things for her . Even I destroyed my left hand because of her and after then also she left me . I can repeat my class but If I tell to my parents that I am failed they will stop trusting me and will keep me in home like a prisoner .

Oliver2011
May 7, 2013, 01:13 PM
I did many things for her . Even I destroyed my left hand because of her and after then also she left me . I can repeat my class but If i tell to my parents that I am failed they will stop trusting me and will keep me in home like a prisoner .

We have all been through breakups and they do seem very bad - that is until we meet the lady of our dreams.

You failed a class - there are consequences in life when we don't perform. That isn't going to change throughout your life. All you can do is learn from your experience and do better. The bad part of life is repeating the same mistakes.

odinn7
May 7, 2013, 01:22 PM
Man, I lost the lady of my dreams twice... my soul mate... blah, blah, blah. I also thought I would never survive but I had a real good friend who help me through it and helped me see that there is more than just some idiot girlfriend to make your life worth having.

Stay single for a while and live for yourself... you will see that you'll be OK. When it's time, someone will come along and you will see that you'll be happy all over again.

Wondergirl
May 7, 2013, 01:34 PM
I did many things for her . Even I destroyed my left hand because of her
What did you do to your left hand?

01anubhav01
May 7, 2013, 08:15 PM
You failed a class - there are consequences in life when we don't perform. That isn't going to change throughout your life. All you can do is learn from your experience and do better. The bad part of life is repeating the same mistakes.
- my parents will not understand . They just want from me to study but my interest is in sports . And if they get to know that I am failed . It will be worst .

01anubhav01
May 7, 2013, 08:29 PM
Its impossible to forget her . How can I think of other . She is my life . Because we loved each other . She was with me in all moments of life . But I don't know why she broke up . I did many cuts in my hands because of her only . I just need a way that what should I do that is why I am telling every thing . My friend sam said before taking any decision go ask the help desk . I beg you please tell me what I do .
I am only getting one option right now .

catlady23
May 7, 2013, 08:37 PM
You've been told what to do...

You have other options, but are not giving ear to them.

A) Go get counseling.
B) Talk to her.
C) Stay strong, and find something else to direct your attention


etc..

Oliver2011
May 8, 2013, 04:29 AM
- my parents will not understand . They just want from me to study but my interest is in sports . And if they get to know that I am failed . It will be worst .

Maybe they won't understand why you neglected your studies. That is their right as parents and unfortunately things we do in life have consequences. You rob a bank you will be put in jail. You speed in your car you will earn a traffic ticket. That is the way life works, not just for you but for everyone.

You need to stay out of relationships until you understand them better and you understand you better. You cannot control how the other person feels. If the other person wants to break up with you, there is nothing you can do about. Life goes on. It is sad to lose someone you love, we have all been through that.

You know some people say when life slams a door on you, another door will open. I say bull crap. Kick the next door down and start a new chapter in your life.